Re: Fellas... Bringing another woman into the bedroom. What's your stance?
I would say this answer solely depends on the closeness and trust, basically the strength of your relationship with your wife. Has she been with another female before? There are so many things to take into account because this could lead to pure disaster if you're not careful. Most men will say either yes to bringing another female in or no to anyone at all. You'll find a few that will say yes to another man, but not many. Choosing the "third party" is where things get tricky. She'll probably want it to be a close friend that she's comfortable with, but then you both would have to face her outside of the bedroom when friends get together, etc. You'll have to address any insecurities, is her friend hotter than her? Don't agree to someone that you might think is even slightly more attractive physically than your wife because even if you think things went alright, your minds will play dirty tricks on you. You could find yourself thinking about this other woman in another way, your wife could start to develop those feelings as well. From me to you, I'm saying don't let it go further than just talking about it, I have personally seen these things go south faster than the speed of light. If you love your wife and want to stay happy and in love with your wife and vice versa, then don't act on it. FYI, my husband would tell you the same thing, don't open pandora's box because you might not be able to close it.