07-09-2010, 11:29 AM
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: New York
| | Re: anal
I will share my own experience. I was always intrigued, but the taboo value was greater than the actual experience. My wife was not a fan, didn't even let me try for years. And frankly, I was OK with it. Then she learned that her sister loves it.
And how it all started for us was the use of lubes, when lubed up I started to perform "fanal" (fake anal) where I would just rub my penis against her backdoor. She loved it and begged for me to slide it in. First few times it was a bit rough. Some positions work better than others, she prefers laying on her side, spooning if you will. Now for me, the vagina is still my preferred route, but she loves having me in her a@@ and a toy in he vagaina.
Now, on the flipside I have been begging to explore prostate massaging for years. She has refused and thinks it is a bit weird. She wouldn't even do it if we got latex gloves. But, just last week she agreed that we got a toy to use on me, she'd be ok with it.