christine30

Hi, This is kind of an embarrassing question, I just wanted some feedback, before I speak to my doctor. Basically, I have been married for 9 months, and after our 2nd month of marriage, we had and are still having issues - we have cut down on sex, because I am not attractive to him that much. Long story short -
We probabaly have sex once or twice a month, sad I know. When H and I do have sex, it doesn't last long, because he comes so fast, which is understandable not having it all the time- I think, But when we are done, I start to get frequent urine sensation (assuming it is UTD) this has happen twice after I have sex with him, So I dont know if he is doing something or is because it been a long time. He also stated his stuff, hurts him after he does it.. I am confused as to why this is happening.
any feedbacks would be helpful.

DawnD

If you are both having a burning sensation after sex it could be BV. It can be spread through a lot of different ways. But you are gonna have to see a doc to know for sure.

reachingshore

Urge to pee afterwards may be caused by him having bumped your cervix perhaps?

christine30

well my dtr did assume it could be him bumping my cervix, and no, i do not have BV - that was already checked for. its just that when we were dating, i never had these symptoms, as soon as I got married it started, and I am not on any pills or so forth.

christine30

however, his is not a burning sensation, his is more of a lil pain .. dont know.. well be asking my doctor .

LadyOfTheHouse

how bout a UTI? not sex related, necessarily. drink lots of fluids (cranberry juice and vitamin C are supposed to help). ladies are prone to urinary tract infections due to dehydration, stress, major-league hormonal fluctuations (pregnancy, menopause)...and FREQUENT, VIGOROUS SEX. again, touch base with doc and ask him if it sounds like a UTI.