patience, vitamins, V, communication, more patience, more talk, minimal action...I've read enough here in the past couple of weeks to know there are many mismatched sex drives. It seems to be a more common complaint of the husbands, but it's all the same, I want it more than my husband, you want it more than your wife... I was surprised to see there are many other women facing the same problem.
We talked about V over vacation. He considers it an option, but he's not ready for that yet. I've asked him to make an appointment with his doctor by the end of July just for a physical, some blood work, etc. So there's the deadline suggested by some of you. (makes sense, thank you for the suggestion).
We made plans to go to a vitamin store to learn about natural options, hmmmm... what a surprise, something came up tonight to prevent us from going (no pun intended). This was another suggestion made by many of you and I think it's a great one too.
I'll admit it, in the last 2 months I've been putting more pressure on him about resolving this problem, but after 3 years of being polite about it, I'm pretty much at the end of my rope.
Somebody please tell me how you stop yourself from seeking out an F-buddy ?!?!?!? And I'm being completely serious....HOW DO YOU DO IT????
I know WHY not to have an affair, so please no lectures about vows and loving your spouse, but with so much built up frustration, and yes, resentment, what stops you from seeking out an affair?
We talked about V over vacation. He considers it an option, but he's not ready for that yet. I've asked him to make an appointment with his doctor by the end of July just for a physical, some blood work, etc. So there's the deadline suggested by some of you. (makes sense, thank you for the suggestion).
We made plans to go to a vitamin store to learn about natural options, hmmmm... what a surprise, something came up tonight to prevent us from going (no pun intended). This was another suggestion made by many of you and I think it's a great one too.
I'll admit it, in the last 2 months I've been putting more pressure on him about resolving this problem, but after 3 years of being polite about it, I'm pretty much at the end of my rope.
Somebody please tell me how you stop yourself from seeking out an F-buddy ?!?!?!? And I'm being completely serious....HOW DO YOU DO IT????
I know WHY not to have an affair, so please no lectures about vows and loving your spouse, but with so much built up frustration, and yes, resentment, what stops you from seeking out an affair?