Re: you did it for other men, but not me?
I would like to clarify.
all my responses are about normal(or what I would call normal) sex act
threesomes,public sex, are not what I call normal. threesome ruin many relationships and public sex and ruin your career.
I'm thinking more like oral,anal,frequency.
with that said I also believe you shouldn't even broach the subject about previous sex partners. (unless you were a sex worker of some kind then I think its the sex workers duty to inform all partners
for safety concerns.
each and every relationship needs to grow and weed through whats acceptable to them as a couple. But in this case the pu$$y was out of the bag so to speak. and should be dealt with the honesty and love for the good of the present relationship.
as far as forcing someone to do anything sexually that they don't want to do. NO not for me because it just ruins it.
a blow job from someone who hates giving one sucks (no pun intended) but its usually a half a$$ed attempt and neither person is satisfied in the end.