07-29-2010, 06:05 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: Wife just isnt interested as much as I am
Sounds to me , this situation is a "Deal Breaker" for you (can't say I blame you at all). You have been struggling with this for over 2 yrs now.
I would imagine all of this has been looked into by now, but physically speaking, is their anything hampering her desire ? birth control pills, depression meds, thyroid issues, has she cared to get her hormones checked or willing to get checked for the sake of saving the marraige ???
Since you been dealing with this SOOO long, I would imagine your resentment over it - is always in the room -which further dampens her interest for intimacy. Have you made any progress in these past 2 yrs, do you feel she is still angry?
How do you feel about letting her know honestly & on the table, this is simply no longer acceptable to you, giving her the opportunity to change/try to meet you half way in allowing herself to be aroused , or letting the marraige go.
Before an affair.