Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
99% of sex has nothing to do with genitals or even the bedroom. Playfulness, confidence, respect, a sense of humor and the ability to relax will translate into a great sex partner. You can't treat someone like crap all day and hop into bed thinking you're going to create magic.
..."Believe it or not, some couples can seperate the rest of the day with sex at night.
They can argue, fight, pick, and at the end of the day, the clothes come off and they go at it like rabbits....
I know I can. I learned early in my marriage how to put my resentments on hold and enjoy the sex. I think ya gotta learn how to do this in a good marriage.
I accually enjoy a good fight & making up but the husband does not appreicate it as much, but 9 times out of 10, I get him going anyway. Love the making up !
He accuses me of fighting - just so we can have "make up sex". Though is it not really my intention, what better way to make up.
I accually enjoy a good fight & making up but the husband does not appreicate it as much, but 9 times out of 10, I get him going anyway. Love the making up !
He accuses me of fighting - just so we can have "make up sex". Though is it not really my intention, what better way to make up.
I never had [hot] make up sex...actually my husband didn't see the point of make up sex let alone it being hot.
I even used to pick fights sometimes just to have sex but he was never interested.
What's it like? lol
But yeah good sex = enthusiasm, humor, confidence and open mindedness...
I have sex in the kitchen and cook in the bedroom.
Just kidding.
Willingness, openness, communication and telling the other person what they want. That is key. My husband doesn't need to figure out what I want because I tell him. He does the same for me.
Oh, and any song by Enigma makes me shake my panties off faster than he can hit play. HOT.
What a great wife! How many women give their husbands a blow job just because they want to?
I play with his toy all the time. I give him a blow job whenever he is standing in front of me naked.
Today he was lying on the sofa reading, naked. I started playing with his toy. After he had fun orally, he wanted a quickie. I didn't plan for that, we were about to go to work, but I happily went to the bedroom.............
And then at work I got this message! I had a big big smile on my face when I replied his!!!
greenpearl, I love reading your posts and the great affection between you and your husband. I know it is nourishing for me to read it. And for those in unhappy marriages, it might give them a wake-up call to leave.
greenpearl, I love reading your posts and the great affection between you and your husband. I know it is nourishing for me to read it. And for those in unhappy marriages, it might give them a wake-up call to leave.
What makes a woman good in bed? 
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