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How many Men or Women here announce "it" right before the BIG event?

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So when you are in the heat of passion with your significant other and you are getting to that point of no return do you announce that you are going to cum?

Example: HER: Oh baby that feels so good...don't stop
HIM: [breaths heavy]
HER: ohhhh ahhhhhh eh eh eh
HIM: "I'm gonna cum!" AHHHHH.....

Why do some of us say this? Does it tell your partner that he or she has been so good at pleasuring you to climax? Do we say this to turn our partners on more or is it just a involuntary proclamation?
 
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But you can't orgasm forever right?

I try to stretch my wife's out for as long as possible but then she is done and I need to wrap things up.

She says that she does not build up to one big orgasm like she does with clitoral stimulation during foreplay. She says it is more like a series of smaller orgasms.

I can see why guys might like to know when there wives are done because it is fun to finish together at the top.

I can always tell when my wife has reached her peak but I often go a little longer because I like the extended version so try to find ways to vary the rhythm to make it build for her more. Once she is done she is done though I would think that those muscles can only contract for so long before they tire.
 
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So when you are in the heat of passion with your significant other and you are getting to that point of no return do you announce that you are going to cum?

Why do some of us say this? Does it tell your partner that he or she has been so good at pleasuring you to climax? Do we say this to turn our partners on more or is it just a involuntary proclamation?
He doesn't announce it in words but he's very noisy when it's happening which is O.M.G.awesome.

I'm more of a moan and sigh kind of gal. He loves hearing me say things though.sends him right over the edge if I tell him I'm cumming.He also like when I tell him what to do.Funny how that part only works in bed and not any other time ;)
 
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#44 ·
I normally get the... "don't stop"....."right there".....and finally...."Oh My God"...and then I notice the clutching of sheets with both hands....and the curling of her exquisite toes....and lots of incredible shaking.

I love her orgasm "details"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

Sometimes I am loud and vocal, and other times, my intense breathing speaks for itself...along with strong clutching of her buttocks at the second of release.
 
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#46 ·
when I give her oral, she starts out quiet, then a few whimpers of pleasure....then she'll "oh yes". That of course means she is cumming, but also for me not to change up. Sometimes,she'll lose an orgasm if I change my pressure or rythym or location.
PIV she doesn't announce it. I can feel the buildup...them an uummph. that is so awesome.

When my W is giving me a BJ we enjoy talking dirty. I won't go into detail here. I don't say I'm cumming. She can tell how close I am by what is being said back and forth. For me, its more of a release sound comes out. I used to be very quiet, my wife taught me to be vocal and let it out vocally when I cum. It is much more enjoyable.
 
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WTF??? Dude unless u r both old & can't 'get it up no more' there is no reason good enough, for u as a married couple, not be sharing intimacy! What the hell happened? U got seperate bedrooms??? No man is an island (or woman) OUCH!!!! Listen i fought tooth & nail to make my husband understand that i would not stand for being treated like a 3rd wheel after our son was born, it was like he had lost his loving feeling & the man that used to make me feel on top of the world everyday had fanished, that i would stand it no longer & after 2 years & me still lving & wanting my husband i eventually told him that i had wasted enough time, trying to make him understand that i needed to be loved, to be shown tenderness, to told once in awhile i looked great, shown tenderness, patience & tolerance, i could even recall when ladt he said he loved me!!!! Enough was enough i wanted a divorce asap'cause i am worthy of love n affection etc... And time waits for no man i told him i felt that i would b happier on my own, anyway we talked & for once he listened... He did not just change his behaviour for 2 weeks, as so many times before, he is going 6 months strong, this change in him has softened my heart too, & it is exciting for me to see him show an interest in me, to take my opinions into account, i too needed to refresh my approach as it took some time for me to trust his actions etc... To let go of the hurt of rejection & to embrace our renewed interest in another, this is alot of work... We now have sex every Saturday Night, & when that time goes we make ourselves all nice, fresh, clean, slighty perfumed i put on something sexy & believe it or not we have wonderful glorious sex as if it's nothing we ever felt before, & oh those delightful little battery **** rings r just the best thing to enhance any labido, lol
 
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When my husband and i have sex, the duration continues to extend because before we know it 3 hours have passed! Woman can control their orgasms as well as the intensity thereof... Sex is not a chore, neither should it be used as a weapon, sex is about pleasure and what gets me (&) keeps me interested and wanting it never to end is the pleasure i can see he is getting from me and how he is responding to what i am doing to him he returns the pleasure with pleasure, also quantity does not beat quality sex, because my hips ache, my legs shake uncontrolably i have to lay there still sqirming with delight for at least 10 minutes before i can get up be certain that i can stand, we have been together for 11 yrs married for 5, been through some difficult times in our relationship, where sex was an issue because of how we were feeling towards each other during this time, u cannot really experience true sex without putting feeling into it, it becomes obvious how u feel about eachother when u lay naked with one another and are just "trying" to figure out how to start because u are unsure as to the reception u will be getting.... Now if only u had the guts to speak out about your apprehension to start because really is anyone in the mood for a chore??? No thanks not i, i want some mind blowing pleasurable sex thanks!
 
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I am very vocal, moan quite a bit, and do announce. This actually helps me along... Mentally I convince myself that I WILL orgasm and nothing short of an oncoming train or a Bruce Lee flykick will stop me, lol.

I think my bf likes it (he can be shy). He certainly seems to hold me closer so I guess it's well received! He is quieter, but starts groaning when he's close and gets gradually louder. It sets my brain on fire when I hear him.
 
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