To sum it up: Yes, if the girl can climax within 5 min.
I have not heard a peep from the guys whose girls can take longer than that. On one site which posed the question how long the girls take to climax from masturbating, the most common answer was 10-15 min, with several saying they fell asleep on themselves. And we know some women have never had a climax.
What about it guys? If your girl needs more than 5 min, be honest - you ignore her or she comes second every time?
Reading this thread makes me wish my wife would seek help. She is tremendously insecure, but early in our marriage, I convinced her to see a doctor. She has physiological problems which make it very hard to climax.
We both think that the shortest time for her, even after about half an hour of foreplay, is 20 minutes. 40 minutes is normal. When we were in our thirtys, she had three orgasms a few times, but we were at it for a total of three hours. She is mortified at the thought of masturbation.
She will never accept that she is not normal. With sex a few times a week, she occasionally does it just for me.
After about 25 years of it, I'll admit that after a while, its hard to keep an erection. I saw a doctor for ED meds who laughed and said that she needs to make the appointment, because I'm above average in that department.
I know what everyone thinks: Its something I'm doing wrong. This was absolutely not a problem before we dated, and I didn't have to be so creative. Had a brief liason with a blond HS teacher when I was her aide, and she was non-stop orgasms. For my wife, if she can be talked into being on top, she can cut down the time to 20 minutes, but that's only after alot of caressing and oral.
She gets angry about the frequency of 2 to 3 times per week, and that it sometimes is more of a weekend thing, proving to her that I don't need it for some reason. I remind her that Sat and Sun are the only days we can get away with spending a few hours in bed without sleeping.