Not what you think. I was 1 woman, now I am a different woman. Same man. Inspired by Two men One woman
Until recently, I spent over a decade in an addiction that made me self-focused, not caring for my husband, no sex drive at all. Narcotics do that to you. I did not care when he came or went, how he felt. I had no feeling to him. Yes, I was nice and did all my duties as a wife and mother, but no feeling. I got tired of the constant need to chase for more pills to avoid feeling bad, so one day I quit. A few weeks later, the sun rose, I awakened, and I saw my handsome studly husband there. He has been there all along, but I could not see it.
Now, I am totally in love with him! I can't get enough sex with him. I am also now older, more passionate, and my enthusiasm brings out so much newness in him. He does things/places we never have before. To me, he is new in bed everytime, even though we know each other 30 years.
I would get up early so I would not be in bed when he woke up to grab me. Now, I stay in bed until after he gets up, so I can be there just in case he wants his way with me. (Still, some of my friends say they wish their husband would sleep on the sofa so they can avoid sex with him.)
So for those who are wondering why your spouse rejects you, or does not seem interested, I want to say that spouse may have their own issues that have nothing to do with you!