09-13-2010, 03:47 PM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | There isn't any sex, that's the problem...
I 'SO' need to say something, as it were! Before I go off pop!
I am in a sexless relationship and I just can't stand it anymore. I have talked with my partner of six years about the fact that we very rarely have any intimate moments- I don't only miss full sex- and he says things will get better, he wants things to return to how they were but I hear words and find no actions follow.
I make the first move and find I am the only one that does. Yes, he responds but I want to feel wanted and needed, desired by my partner. I find it so frustrating when he reacts to how other men act around me and yet doesn't show the same level of desire etc...
Resentment is building up now and I so don't want this. I really cherish the cuddles and hugs but find myself longing for more. I am a sensual, earthy person, I don't want to give the impression that I just crave the physical and can't appreciate the spiritual elements of being in a loving relationship as that just isn't so.
Of course there is more to a relationship than sex, but it is part of showing your love and closeness, and I miss this. So very much...