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Old 11-12-2010, 01:20 AM   #46 (permalink)
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What you have stated above, I can't see a thing she did or asked of you is unreasonable as a pervert. Except the thing about her cheating, you said she had slept with other man, did it happen before you married her?
Say something more logical & sensible. So far your reasons for accusing your wife is dominant are far from valid. Honestly they are more close to feeble excuses.

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Old 11-12-2010, 01:38 AM   #47 (permalink)
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You can be a nice guy and not allow your wife to walk on you. She walks on you, and gives you crap simply because she can. She knows you will take whatever she deals you. You need to find out why you allow this, and begin working on making changes in yourself. If you are not happy then it is time to do something to be happy.
I can't see where his wife walked on him.
Making the wife happy in bed means she's walking on the husband? Wife expects husband to use money wisely and choose friends carefully means she walked on the husband.
It doesn't make sense.
I really don't understand! He still not yet said a thing to prove that the wife is dominant.
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His wife gives him craps? Which craps???
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:36 AM   #49 (permalink)
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I think everyone is projecting some of their own situation onto R2's postings.

MsLonely - check out his thread in the Men's section to get a better idea of what he might be dealing with.

From reading several of his posts, his wife sounds very domineering, and it sounds like he's put up with a lot over the years because he loves her. But now he's realizing that he is unhappy with the way that she treats him.

People do this all the time. A more exagerrated example would be someone who sticks with an alcoholic spouse even though the relationship brings more pain than good. Or someone who stays with an abusive spouse while constantly making excuses for their behavior and even hiding the abuse from others.
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Old 11-12-2010, 08:47 AM   #50 (permalink)
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NG,

She doesn't know what she is talking about!

R2 knows what is going on!
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Old 11-12-2010, 12:25 PM   #51 (permalink)
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I'm not a nice guy.

I'm a bad boy.

Me and my Harley. . .roaming the road. . .drifting. . .being a loner. Strolling into towns and breaking hearts. Picking fights. . .

Yes, ladies. . .I'm bad. . .
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I'm not a nice guy.

I'm a bad boy.

Me and my Harley. . .roaming the road. . .drifting. . .being a loner. Strolling into towns and breaking hearts. Picking fights. . .

Yes, ladies. . .I'm bad. . .
Kind of like Fonzie?

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Kind of like Fonzie?
LOL.

Yeah, thats my new motto in life (saw someone who had it for quote under their moniker):

What would the Fonz do?

Ehhhhhhhhhhh.
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I think everyone is projecting some of their own situation onto R2's postings.

MsLonely - check out his thread in the Men's section to get a better idea of what he might be dealing with.

From reading several of his posts, his wife sounds very domineering, and it sounds like he's put up with a lot over the years because he loves her. But now he's realizing that he is unhappy with the way that she treats him.

People do this all the time. A more exagerrated example would be someone who sticks with an alcoholic spouse even though the relationship brings more pain than good. Or someone who stays with an abusive spouse while constantly making excuses for their behavior and even hiding the abuse from others.
Can you make an example that she's abusive?
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Old 11-12-2010, 04:16 PM   #55 (permalink)
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No - and I didn't say she was "abusive." I said she sounds "domineering" and that some of us - including me - are projecting our own experiences onto his situation.

In the example he gave on his post in the Men's forum, she was trying to make belittle him while he was doing something helpful/useful (emptying the dishwasher). Seems that she has some issues -but those issues likely aren't directly tied to how he empties the DW.

The example he gave sounds familiar to a lot of us - myself included.
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I'm not a nice guy.

I'm a bad boy.

Me and my Harley. . .roaming the road. . .drifting. . .being a loner. Strolling into towns and breaking hearts. Picking fights. . .

Yes, ladies. . .I'm bad. . .
I am a bad girl!

Dare to challenge me???!!!

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