Re: Any men have a hard time reaching orgasms?
I am 58 and in good health (not overweight, run 3X a week, normal BP, etc.) and I find that I take longer than I used to. My wife is fairly quick, so she usually goes first then we use a position that is good for me. There have been occasions that I have not been able to go. I really feel that, as a circumcised male, the sensitivity of the glans has diminished over time. Recently I have been doing research on foreskin restoration and have begun a program to accomplish this. (If curious, Google NORM). I am beginning to restore the sensitivity only after one month. The only way I can describe it is the difference between using a condom and not using a condom.
The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1 Corinthians 7:2 (The Message)