Sex in MarriageSexual problems are common in many relationships. This section is for discussions about sexuality. Please limit discussions to those asking for help with a problem and those offering advice. Any other threads may be deleted.
I can say that my man is a little thrown off by me mentioning one. Thinks it will replace him or something, but his drive is lower than mine, he really don't like the thought of me using it, but, I told him he could join in if I were to get one! I'm like you though don't really know what's out there or if it is going to cause some problems in the relationship
I feel confident with myself (size etc..) I just thought it would add to our time together with alil change up now and then... Maybe something she would ask for every so often which would make me very aroused....too.
I dont like skin colored ones when mixing my h & toys.. just personal preference but the more "realistic" the less toy-like appeal it has for me. Its supposed to add a fun element to the bedroom- why buy a penis if u got one?! I would suggest something fun colored but not too complicated or crazy... something smaller than u and with very strong vibe power w/adjuster. Most shops let u feel its vibe ability. Dig the finger clitoris stimulators so long as they have a soft cover... also suggest the wands with egg shaped ends to hit the gspot with. Once she gets hooked graduate to a jack rabbit! =D also honorable mention: playgirl dvds and magnetic panty remote control vibes make for interesting dinner dates ;P Posted via Mobile Device
LOL!!!! that is so lame - ya dont walk into the bedroom with a dong chin if u plan on getting more than a laugh out of wifey! those blow up dolls freak me out too.. one man doll had a mullet! wtf?! Posted via Mobile Device
Ladies, I am thinking about buying a toy for the bedroom . What are your thoughts or what would your reaction be if your husband or lover wanted to use one to get you aroused?
I think I would like the idea my husband WANTED to get one and use it on me, cause it says something interesting about his sex drive-always wanting to try new things, keep things exciting, a little adventerous. For that reason alone, I personaly would like the idea. His enthusiam is what would sell me on it , and allow me to enjoy it.
It was me who bought one about 2 yrs ago -when suddenly My sex drive exploded & he was having trouble keeping up with me , but in all honesty, I didnt care to use it , probably only did 3 times total. I bought a vibrator and a dildo, liked the dildo better, but absolutely no comparison to the real thing. I do not care for doing it alone at all.
Once He used it on me, I asked him too, and for me, that was just not a very passionate experience. He was NOT "into it" the way I think the Poster has in mind -to use on his wife. If he was, it would have made a big difference. My husband has absolutely no desire to experiment with sex toys, he wants me to use him, he always says he wants me to use "his toy", which is GREAT- I am not complaining, as I do prefer that. But still the zeal of the one who wants to use them, I believe that makes or breaks the experience -for the receivers pleasure.
Even if your wife may not originally want to try them, the way you present it to her, well, I believe this can surely "enhance" your sex life.