Hello all,
My first time posting, and I'd love for some input.
Long story short, my beau and I have been together for almost 3 years. First year and a half of the relationship, the sex was fantastic. In fact, it still is...when we actually get around to doing it. Our normal dry spells last approximately 3 months. We've talked about this extensively, and he says he honestly doesn't know what the problem is. He just doesn't think about sex, period. He wants to make me happy in the relationship, and he feels like our issues are entirely his fault.
He is extremely affectionate outside the bedroom...kisses, hugs, smacks on the tush, looks at me the way I feel like I'm the only one in the world he cares about. It's just the sex thing that's the issue in our relationship.
He's suffered from depression in the past, and while he said this time, he doesn't feel depressed...he just feels more moody and 'blah'. He has put on a bit of weight around the mid-section (not too much, but enough for it to effect his self esteem), and that doesn't help things either.
I did some research, and it seems he has a lot of the symptoms of low testosterone. He's making a doctor's appt for next week to check EVERYTHING and see if it's medical or not, but I'm very scared that they're just going to laugh at him considering he's only 29 years old.
I guess my post isn't so much of a question as a means for me to vent and see if other people are going through similar experiences. He says he wants to find a solution, but if it's not medical, he has absolutely no idea what the problem could be.
Anyone out there going through this? With a Low T partner or otherwise?
My first time posting, and I'd love for some input.
Long story short, my beau and I have been together for almost 3 years. First year and a half of the relationship, the sex was fantastic. In fact, it still is...when we actually get around to doing it. Our normal dry spells last approximately 3 months. We've talked about this extensively, and he says he honestly doesn't know what the problem is. He just doesn't think about sex, period. He wants to make me happy in the relationship, and he feels like our issues are entirely his fault.
He is extremely affectionate outside the bedroom...kisses, hugs, smacks on the tush, looks at me the way I feel like I'm the only one in the world he cares about. It's just the sex thing that's the issue in our relationship.
He's suffered from depression in the past, and while he said this time, he doesn't feel depressed...he just feels more moody and 'blah'. He has put on a bit of weight around the mid-section (not too much, but enough for it to effect his self esteem), and that doesn't help things either.
I did some research, and it seems he has a lot of the symptoms of low testosterone. He's making a doctor's appt for next week to check EVERYTHING and see if it's medical or not, but I'm very scared that they're just going to laugh at him considering he's only 29 years old.
I guess my post isn't so much of a question as a means for me to vent and see if other people are going through similar experiences. He says he wants to find a solution, but if it's not medical, he has absolutely no idea what the problem could be.
Anyone out there going through this? With a Low T partner or otherwise?