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Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
This topic made me join because the OP described my sex life to a T. I love my wife but when the things we use to do when we were dating, the things I loved and didn't even have to ask for just go away after marriage, I feel like I've been tricked.
Yes we've had the talks the arguments and the whole nine but nothing changes. I think some women just say the hell with it when in all honesty if you leave them they'll just be doing to someone else what they could've been doing to you the whole time. The bait and switch routine is tired ladies if you don't like something don't do it at all, because if a man likes it he's gonna want it!
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by FeelsBadMan
This topic made me join because the OP described my sex life to a T. I love my wife but when the things we use to do when we were dating, the things I loved and didn't even have to ask for just go away after marriage, I feel like I've been tricked.
Yes we've had the talks the arguments and the whole nine but nothing changes. I think some women just say the hell with it when in all honesty if you leave them they'll just be doing to someone else what they could've been doing to you the whole time. The bait and switch routine is tired ladies if you don't like something don't do it at all, because if a man likes it he's gonna want it!
Women love to please their husband in bed when feeling loved, respected and understood. Bait and switch routine is really a man's stuff and style when they handle relationship problems.
If you insist in wanting it your way, I don't think your wife has a talent to stop you to get what you want... sad but true.
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by okeydokie
you are slappping the face of many of the good women in here that have confessed to liking that act and are happy to perform it on their husbands. dont assume your prudish and opressed attitude is shared by all.
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by MsLonely
OKEYDOKIE,
You're getting me very wrong and being offensive to my comment. I'm not slapping on good women who enjoy pleasing their husbands. I'm proud of them actually. What I concern is their happiness to do it. To speak more honestly, I'd love to slap on those husbands who insist in making their wives as pron stars because it's true that pron stars ARE PAID to entertain you in many naughty and nasty ways.
My point was clear, women have perfect right to refuse any nasty idea that doesn't make them feel comfortable with. For example, swallowing the semen. Some women like to swallow and some women don't. You CAN'T EXPECT your wife to swallow your semen if she doesn't want ONLY BECAUSE you want her to be a PRON STAR.
If she loves to be a pron star for you, I'm happy for her and happy for you. So this thread won't exist.
Please read my comment carefully. In my comment I said:
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ONLY if she is happy to swallow it, then never mind. If she's happy to please you, then never mind. In that case, you can get what you want from her.
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What I want to point out was a simple word called RESPECT. I can't understand why you call it slap???????? What is your problem?
I don't need my comment of RESPECT to be shared by all. You don't have to agree with me. It's just my personal opinion. If you ask me 100 times, I would tell you the same thing. But before you accused me slapping on good women, you have to show enough evidences.
My problem with the above statment is that like beer, the first time you taste it, you may not like it at all, but after a while you get used to it and the nattiness of the act, may start appealing to you and seeing how much your husbad enjoy it and the way he acts up aftewards, may be enough for the wife to realize how to keep her marriage exciting and her husband eating from her hand....do you get me now?...
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by greenpearl
I swallow his come. After I swallow, I keep on licking his head. That really drives my husband crazy.
He doesn't get this kind of king service often, once a month maybe!
I am happy to do it once a month because I know how much he enjoys it.
And to me that's the point.....you do it for love and the knowldege of how this act bring you closer to your husband...my wife does not swallow the whole thing, but I don't really care as long as she shows me that she also is enjoying it and do everything I like.....like liking the testiculos and the sides like she is going to eat it!!!.....you do that no matter what's in you mind, with time you'll learn to deal with your demons and at some point you'll start making peace with it, and hopefully enjoy it.....if you don't try to move ahead in how you deal with sex, your relationship is doomed to fail....that's how I see it...it is the same with all areas of your relationship, you have to take care of it...
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by MsLonely
I'm happy for you and your husband because you were happy to swallow it sometimes.
If his wife is happy to swallow his semen, he wouldn't have to question it on his thread. So it's obvious that he expects his wife to perform some things that over her limits but insisited in making her a pron star, that was exactly the thing I disagreed with. He said he never forced her wife but he's pushing her to learn to satisfy his fullest excitiments. Well, if she's happy, who cares? They're happy couple, they're happy to learn to satisfy each other. You know what I mean? He doesn't need to hang around in this forum for advice.
I am asking for comments / opinions......I am sharing what it is working for me.....I love my wife, but we've been through toughs times...and right now, I am still trying to deal with the fact that I am very sensitive and passionate when she's not.....you have to understand that a man cannot be fully connected to his wife, if she is not willing to show him that she really loves him.....and to us, it has to do with being able to turn off all the fire we have within because of unfullfield fantacies.....
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by greenpearl
My husband doesn't agree with this either. He says I have to enjoy what he is doing. I wouldn't like it if my husband forces me to do anything. My husband just tries to suggest ideas, if I don't like it, he just quits. But very often he gets what he wants. Just don't suggest silly ideas!!!
Same here....what do you think I am.....when she is not in the mood I don't push it, but she knows that from time to time, she needs to let me put out that fire.....and if that means, letting me enjoy her in different ways, or asking her for a few special things, why not?? I am not asking her to do a threesome or to put a can in her vagina....it is about she showing me that she wants me and that I can touch her whatever I want and kiss her whatever I want and ask her to give me a bj after her first orgasm and while she gives me the bj to reach my first orgasm, I want to try a dildo in her and see if I can be succesfull at giver her another orgasm while she sucks my pe...s....what is wrong with those things??
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by HomeGoodMan
greenPearl, what you say are very important and correct for the man, specially for me, learn from you!
i always say to my wife, you are my queen.
TAM is a very interesting place. There is so much to learn. It is like a neighborhood with a lot of kind international residents. Thank Chris for it!!!
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by marcopoly69
Same here....what do you think I am.....when she is not in the mood I don't push it, but she knows that from time to time, she needs to let me put out that fire.....and if that means, letting me enjoy her in different ways, or asking her for a few special things, why not?? I am not asking her to do a threesome or to put a can in her vagina....it is about she showing me that she wants me and that I can touch her whatever I want and kiss her whatever I want and ask her to give me a bj after her first orgasm and while she gives me the bj to reach my first orgasm, I want to try a dildo in her and see if I can be succesfull at giver her another orgasm while she sucks my pe...s....what is wrong with those things??
I told my husband about this dildo idea, he is very excited. He is A MAN. You know! YOU MEN, sick bastards! I guess we are going to try that very soon!
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
Nothing wrong, sorry I think I misunderstood you in some ways. It's terrific to be more playful in bed and spice up sexual life. There's just a thing that is a bit confusing when you said your wife was not very responsive to show her love, but you did say you had sex with her quite often, including her giving you good blow jobs... Etc. She doesn't mind you bought sex toys and is happy to give it a try with you. She's been pleasing you the way you like, right, hasn't she?
So what do you mean she's not showing her love to you? Posted via Mobile Device
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
Yes. Sorry I just saw it. That's why your english is quite good compare with many taiwanese people. You've got a great sleeping dictionary. Posted via Mobile Device
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
Men's hearts are connected to their second heads?! Lol. First time I heard from a man say so. Mostly I heard complaints from wives about what their husbands care about the most is the happiness in the bedroom. So it's true... :d Posted via Mobile Device
Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo
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Originally Posted by MsLonely
OKEYDOKIE,
You're getting me very wrong and being offensive to my comment. I'm not slapping on good women who enjoy pleasing their husbands. I'm proud of them actually. What I concern is their happiness to do it. To speak more honestly, I'd love to slap on those husbands who insist in making their wives as pron stars because it's true that pron stars ARE PAID to entertain you in many naughty and nasty ways.
My point was clear, women have perfect right to refuse any nasty idea that doesn't make them feel comfortable with. For example, swallowing the semen. Some women like to swallow and some women don't. You CAN'T EXPECT your wife to swallow your semen if she doesn't want ONLY BECAUSE you want her to be a PRON STAR.
If she loves to be a pron star for you, I'm happy for her and happy for you. So this thread won't exist.
Please read my comment carefully. In my comment I said:
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ONLY if she is happy to swallow it, then never mind. If she's happy to please you, then never mind. In that case, you can get what you want from her.
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What I want to point out was a simple word called RESPECT. I can't understand why you call it slap???????? What is your problem?
I don't need my comment of RESPECT to be shared by all. You don't have to agree with me. It's just my personal opinion. If you ask me 100 times, I would tell you the same thing. But before you accused me slapping on good women, you have to show enough evidences.
-you used the term "NASTY" to describe the act.
-you said porn stars are PAID to swallow inferring thats the only reason they do or the only reason anyone would.
-you infer that the OP is trying to force his wife to do things she doesnt want when in fact it only appears he wishes she would and doesnt understand why she wont.
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Re: Don't understand why is a problem if your wife becomes a porn star in the bedroo 
After I swallow, I keep on licking his head. That really drives my husband crazy. 
