To everyone out there, I keep getting a vibe from the ladies suggesting that men should not expect their wives to become porn stars in the bedroom when for a men would be heaven on earth....don't understand why shouldn't be the goal in any marriage....to enjoy your intimacy the to max....if you are happy in your life and really love your wife / husband, why don't make your sex live unbelieveble!!... to me, this is it...one life, don't stop or quit from trying to experience the most enjoyable and intimate thing you can have with your partner....go at it like the world is going to end....if you don't feel like it, may be you are not in love anymore.....what do you think?...should woman make peace with the fact that they need to become pros in the bedroom and see how that may make their lives better with their husband, rather than trying to have any control of the relationship by not having sex or great sex which in turns would make their husband take their fantacies to another place?