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Recently, during a discussion about fantasies, my husband revealed that he has a thing for lingerie - specifically corsets w/ garters, thigh high stockings and high heels. News to me, since he has never bought me one piece of lingerie in 17 yrs and any sexy lingerie I do wear (granted I never wore a corset or thigh highs before) usually ends up off of me very quickly.
Well anyway, I decided to buy some stuff and surprised him with it last night with a very positive reaction. Brings out a bit of the bad boy in him which I found very exciting. Everything but the panties stayed on the entire time.
So, how often should I indulge this fantasy of his? I would think that if I did this all the time it would get old and not be as exciting. He likes the surprise aspect of it, so I don't want to come right out and ask him how often like I'm setting up a schedule or something.
How often do YOU indulge your husband's (or wife's) fantasies?
I don't know if this forum has boosted your skills or not.
My husband's fantasy is WW, I have to be one of them, just not my thing, and I don't want to set up a fire to burn our asses. So he has to keep it in his head. Which is OK for him. He doesn't whine!
I used to wear a black bra and fishnet shirt, fishnet stockings, black buckle up boots and black leather mini skirt that was open on both sides. I even had lace up jeans that laced from the bottom all the way up the leg to the hip. MAN do I miss those days. I never get to wear anything fun lol.
My husband could care less what I wear, it's like a race to get it off.
I don't know if this forum has boosted your skills or not.
My husband's fantasy is WW, I have to be one of them, just not my thing, and I don't want to set up a fire to burn our asses. So he has to keep it in his head. Which is OK for him. He doesn't whine!
yes n no, skills remain as skills but it makes no differences if u dun really get a chance to practice...
girl, if he whines about u, u should knock him on his head too! LOL
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I used to wear a black bra and fishnet shirt, fishnet stockings, black buckle up boots and black leather mini skirt that was open on both sides. I even had lace up jeans that laced from the bottom all the way up the leg to the hip. MAN do I miss those days. I never get to wear anything fun lol.
My husband could care less what I wear, it's like a race to get it off.
arent we all? LOL
try to do some sensual sultry dance, get him to participate... tell him u urself will strip it off, but in return he needs to do...???
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Will do! With my giant purple dildo that just came in the mail LOL.
So, how often should I indulge this fantasy of his? I would think that if I did this all the time it would get old and not be as exciting. He likes the surprise aspect of it, so I don't want to come right out and ask him how often like I'm setting up a schedule or something.
How often do YOU indulge your husband's (or wife's) fantasies?
Do it often, but not enough to make it a routine. Wear your sexy gear under "night out" clothes. Let him see that you have them on, but hands off until the dinner date is over.
Try to make some effort to show him that you are dressed up underneath, but there's no time for him to undress you. Timing is crucial and you have to be careful. Don't show him your unmentionables before YOU go out alone or with the girls. But show them before HE goes out on boys night.
I have a few pairs of boxers that drive my wife wild. When she's about to leave for work, I'll put them on and shave. I'll also wear them when we go out on a date and make sure that she knows it.
My husband's fantasy is WW, I have to be one of them, just not my thing, and I don't want to set up a fire to burn our asses. So he has to keep it in his head. Which is OK for him. He doesn't whine!
This is my husband's OTHER fantasy. (why is it that almost every man I've been with has this one?)
I told him, when I can have two guys, then he can have two girls. I was afraid he would call my bluff for a minute there. Too many things can potentially go wrong with fulfilling fantasies that involve a third party, so not even gonna go there. But, I figure we can "pretend" every once in a while in the bedroom.
I'm glad he had another fantasy that was easier to fulfill.
Recently, during a discussion about fantasies, my husband revealed that he has a thing for lingerie - specifically corsets w/ garters, thigh high stockings and high heels. News to me, since he has never bought me one piece of lingerie in 17 yrs and any sexy lingerie I do wear (granted I never wore a corset or thigh highs before) usually ends up off of me very quickly.
Well anyway, I decided to buy some stuff and surprised him with it last night with a very positive reaction. Brings out a bit of the bad boy in him which I found very exciting. Everything but the panties stayed on the entire time.
So, how often should I indulge this fantasy of his? I would think that if I did this all the time it would get old and not be as exciting. He likes the surprise aspect of it, so I don't want to come right out and ask him how often like I'm setting up a schedule or something.
How often do YOU indulge your husband's (or wife's) fantasies?
I would satisfy my husband's fantasies as often as possible. I can do quite many naughty things for him but he didn't use me often. So I'm quite relaxing. Posted via Mobile Device
Indulging his fantasy 
Too many things can potentially go wrong with fulfilling fantasies that involve a third party, so not even gonna go there. But, I figure we can "pretend" every once in a while in the bedroom. 
