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Wow! This thread it getting good. Please...keep it coming. It is confirming for me to see women in their 30s (my wife' age is 36) with kids (we have two, 6 & 8) that have a lot of sex and even want more! We have sex twice a week (I'd like every day)...but I think she'd like about once every 8-10 days. She tries to normalize her feelings on this and says stuff like "I'm just like other Moms.". Hmmm...well not according to a majority of the replies in this thread so far...just sayin'. Frustrating to say the least.
1. Age - 26 & as with someone else in the best shape of my life
2. Marital Status - Married
3. Children? How many? Ages? 1 child, 16 months
4. How often do you have sex with your partner? I only need one hand to count how many times in the past year
5. Do you want more...same or less sex than you currently have? MORE!! I would do it every day if I still felt a romantic attraction towards my husband, unfortunately we are having some issues in that dept
Ching Chang - You're lucky your wife gives it to you twice a week compared to my response! Take the other replies into account also
It's all relative I suppose. But...it really isn't about "giving it to me". I could actually have it more if I pushed it. The problem is I'm tired of being the only one bringing sexual energy to the table. I actually feel lonely...like even my wife can't relate to me. What I want is for her to be sexually desirous of me...not just be "ok" with having sex with me. Men...just like women...need to be desired by their partner. I want her to treat me like she did when I asked her to marry me. Basically...she was all over me...I couldn't even keep up. Now...if I don't initiate it would happen maybe 1-2 month. The thing is...I know there are married women out there that have a lot of sex and would love to have more. So it isn't like I want something that isn't possible or doesn't exist. We could get into the nitty-gritty of the relationship...but to spare you...I'll just say that I'm a keeper. I treat her with respect and love. The problem is she isn't willing to do the things necessary to restore her libido...which is killing me. I'm starting to feel like my marriage is a death sentence. Sorry about the negativity.
status: 9 years
kids: an 8 year-old bio. child, 13 year-old stepchild
amount: 1-2 times a week to once a month
want more: nope, happy the way it is, or no sex would be good. Actually, like wantloveback, I would like more attention and time with him, more romance.