For wives who have suffered from sexless marriage, please read my message!
A man with a good testosterone level never feels old, always feels young, horny and happy.
So, stop listening to your husbands' feeble excuses about the tireness from work, it's time to for you to squeeze his ear and make him sit in front of the doctor!
My husband's true story:
My husband is in his 30s with low libido. His reason were always he worked too much, he's tired or he's pressure from work, which were also true.
I'd been frustrated and I always concluded that I was not a desirable wife. Then we both had our emotional affairs. (He first, I later) My marriage was in a nightmare until last year, he finally faced the music (because of my constant fighting for sex), I made the appointment and made him sit in front of the doctor.
The blood test result showed he lacked of testosterone. His level was too low.
Reasons: He was overweighted and he's a heavy smoker, together with many years work pressure, his manhood power weakened year after year.
He only received 1 injection from the doctor. 1 injection is medically not enough, because ususally it requires at least 3 cycles (3 injections in 9 months) to push up testosterone leve to a good point.
But because we told the doctor, we wanted to have a baby badly, the doctor refused to give him more shots, as the injection could boost testosterone but also kills sperms...
Without medical help, my husband realized he must do something by himself to boost his terstosterone level- living in a new life.
He changed work, which allows him free time to do exercise (swimming, running in the gym) He ate healthy food, mostly steam food. Unhealthy food such as oily and deep fried food are strickly avoided. Most importantly, no beer!
After 1 year, he has lost lots of weights and now he's slightly over-weighted. (First time see him so slim in my life.) I had to buy new shirts and pants for him because of his weight loss. That was a happy shopping though.
Last week, we went for a 2nd blood test, now his level increased but not yet reached a good point.
Now we both agreed it a good idea for him to continue the necessary injections. I think the baby can wait.
(I'm also on my thyroid medication which is not a good timing to get pregnant anyway.)
I can see he's a much happier man compared to before.