11-10-2010, 04:28 PM
Join Date: Nov 2010
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My hubby and i are good friends with a couple we adore and have known for 5 years. We all love to be together and our kids get allong great.
The husband however, makes comments about his lack of "getting any". I know she has made comments to me suggesting that sex is more of a chore than anything.
According to my husband he recently got the sense that "
things have to change" in this regard. I have mentioned to her that I give bjs when i am not in the mood. I trully believe my husband holds me in very high regard (and has told me so) because of my ability/willingness to go down on him. My dirty little secret is that i LOVE to do this to him. Anyway she seemed shocked and my guess is that she has never pleased her husband this way. I am not sure if she has never had an orgasm or what.
If they spit up it would be terrible. I am not sure if she is a prude, doen't like sex or what. I don't want to step out of line but, don't want their relationship to end because of his sexual frustration.
Are their women who really don't like sex. My husband said he dated a women that never orgasmend but, he claimed she still enjoyed the act.