Re: not attracted to my husband
Every man should read this before considering getting married. And then not get married. A lot of women (more than half in my experience and knowledge) feel this way within a few years of getting married. But they stay, and make the man's life miserable, because they are enjoying the comforts of either (1) duel incomes or (2) being able to not have to work. If you don't marry them they will not become this way. Knowing that all you have to do is pack their stuff and tell them to leave the house (no divorce, alimoney, etc.) will prevent this scenario. Going years in a loveless, sexless marriage is mental cruelty. It is a way she is punishing you. A power grab. It's the only weapon she has and she is firing it at you point blank. Don't let her do it. Divorce her if you are married. If you are not married, do not, under an circumstance (child, pressure, etc.) get married. This woman's husband needs to walk and never look back. Life is to short to live with someone that hates you.