12-10-2010, 12:04 PM
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: In a better place, thanks to TAM
| | Re: Strange Dream About Wife Having Sex With Someone Else
Hi Nekko and Jamesa. Thank you both for taking the time to reply and apologies for not getting back to you earlier. Life is kinda hectic at present. What you've written is thought provoking.
Nekko, our sex life was always a bit hit and miss to be honest, though we did have some periods of intense activity during our marriage. Why has it been ten weeks or more? We're both very busy at the moment and my wife is also back in college doing a Ph. D which is very demanding and exhausting on her. Personally speaking, my sex life has become low in the last year or so and I reckon a lot of the reason is pressure of work and the stresses that go with it. Also, my wife has put on a little weight and I don't find her as desirable as I did. And I would be the one to iniatate sex more than my wife on a 70%-30% ratio. And maybe I'm not as attractive as I was to her either. Lack of sex isn't an issue for either of us at present, which is why I wondered what the dream might be all about.
Jamesa, I think your point about competition and testosterone is a very valid one. If I think my wife is using her vibrator a lot, my desire for sex with her increases greatly. Kinda pathetic, I know, but that's life, I guess.