Re: Strange Dream About Wife Having Sex With Someone Else
Ok, i doubt anyone can crack that dream "open" for you and tell you exactly what it means.
But you could try and figure it out for yourself. First off, try to figure out what you felt during the dream. It could be pleasure, anxiety, fear, hate...etc....
In your case it sounds like you started off as a jealous guy and as your marriage progressed you either got bored of your wife and suggested she could experience with other guys or you became more secure in your relationship and told her she could wanting to see her say no.
Could've been an unconscious test where you expected her to be faithful and not want to be with another guy and you "gave her permission" only to see her say no and confirm to you that your safety in this relationship is wise.
Right now you might regret what you said deep down and fear that even if she said no she might be tempted to go for it. So that dream may be a sort of "hidden fear" you're trying to get rid of. Aka you gave her permission and in the dream what you fear happens as in she comes and actually asks if she can do it. For the record, dreams are not "prophecies" and have little to do with our future. In most cases they are either random ways in which our brain plains around while trying to sort information during our sleep. Sometimes we encounter problems during our day and we dream about them and try to solve them in our mind at night. At other times we have fears about something and the fears are strong enough for us to dream about them. Other times we just get extremely interested in something and we dream about those things. As i said, all you're thinking about during a day will have a tendency to enter your dreams in some way because that info needs to be sorted, moved in the long term memory, erased etc...
Of course what i said is just pure speculation. If scientists didn't manage to fully explain how dreams work, you can imagine us "friendly" and less-educated forum posters are even further from a to the point and accurate answer.
What my question is....why is your sex life hit and miss? 10 weeks seems a decently long time for you to not connect with each other. The fact that you mention this here may signal that you've linked your sex life to the dream about your wife seeing another man.
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