Re: I want to tie my wife up and use toys on her
Different people have different opinions on this one, but I like my DH's sexy tunes mix.
I hate baths. Ick. I do not want to sit in a pool of my own dirt and sweat.
You can't *get* her to do anything. If she feels unsafe or insecure, then she won't want to do it. Have you asked her why she does not want you to see her reaction? When she uses the magic wand (love that thing!) does she squirt? Could she be afraid of that?
Make SURE if you tie her up that you have a safe word. Something that has nothing to do with sex like door mat that you would never normally say during sex. If she says the safe word, it is full stop. Trust is the most important thing.