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Responding to another post reminded me of this. My guess is many of you may know this but...
My husband recently recently discoverd -googling "anatomy of the clitorus"-duh of all things-gotta love the internet- that most of the clitorus is located underneath the little head, kind of like the way an iceberg is mostly under the water LOL. I was amazed to see the big area it covers.
Anyway he recently got me lubed up and began rubbing me side to side so my whole clit was rubbing over the bones in my pelvis. I came like crazy and would not have thought to do that.
PS Playing with lube in general is fun. Thought I would share.
Yes. The exact reason my wife likes to use her whole palm pressing very hard side to side during self-pleasure and likes me to use a wide, flat tongue on her when doing oral. She does not like flicking or quick strokes.
My deepest most intense orgasms are from stimulating the very top area or off to the side of my clit, where presumably the unseen parts are. Plus, it does not get sensitive there after climax, so you can keep going.
As a guy who didn't get (or at least, didn't read) the user's guide from his wife, any information you can provide is appreciated... Learning through trial and error is fun, but it never hurts to learn more.
Yeah. I wish my H came with a manual and i am REALLY sure my H wished i did. Candidly, I have not seen allot of posts about some of the mechanics of sex but not sure if that is because of the fine line between needing to get graphic and overstepping the line of being too graphic.
All i have to say regarding lube is that it ads a new demension to things. If my H is really aroused and we want things to last longer using lube can slow things down for him as ther is less friction/stimulation for him.