Hi. First post so hello, and please be kind!
My wife and I have been together for about 5 years. My sex drive has always been higher than hers. Recently when I tried to initiate sex she said she didn't want to as she wanted to read. She then suggested that I could have sex with her while she read her book. Since that night she hasn't wanted to have sex again but is happy for me to have sex with her while she reads in bed. She's actually happy for me to have sex with her every night as long as she can read her book and doesn't have to join in. It's a little strange but as I want to have sex I go along with it. She says she's very happy for me to carry on and feels the pressure is off from her to participate. She also say's she is happy in our relationship but just isn't interested but understands that I want to have sex and is happy for me to, her words, use her.
I wonder if this is something I should go along with or perhaps this is a sign of other problems. I don't believe there is anyone else or anything like that and I believe her when she says she's happy so perhaps this is ok?
Any advice please?
My wife and I have been together for about 5 years. My sex drive has always been higher than hers. Recently when I tried to initiate sex she said she didn't want to as she wanted to read. She then suggested that I could have sex with her while she read her book. Since that night she hasn't wanted to have sex again but is happy for me to have sex with her while she reads in bed. She's actually happy for me to have sex with her every night as long as she can read her book and doesn't have to join in. It's a little strange but as I want to have sex I go along with it. She says she's very happy for me to carry on and feels the pressure is off from her to participate. She also say's she is happy in our relationship but just isn't interested but understands that I want to have sex and is happy for me to, her words, use her.
I wonder if this is something I should go along with or perhaps this is a sign of other problems. I don't believe there is anyone else or anything like that and I believe her when she says she's happy so perhaps this is ok?
Any advice please?