12-19-2010, 05:27 PM
Join Date: Nov 2010
| | What's prompted his increased interest?
Hoping to shed some light...
My OH's libido seems to have increased dramatically of late. Now, he's always had a healthy drive, and we've been evenly matched. We had a bit of a dip the last couple of months right before and after we had our second child, but have gotten back into things. We were still intimate in other ways in that time.
I don't know why, and can't piece it all together exactly, so I hope this makes sense, but I can't help but think that his increased interest is not only because I can now get back into it, but a response from him to what has been going on in our lives. Does this happen, and if so, how does it work?
What I mean is that we have had a lot of discussion recently about whether he wants to get married (I was unsure he really did although he said he did.) We have talked through that and are both happy with how things are now, but I have a very strong sense that his increased interest is somehow related to this. He has also started commenting on our sex life more, his wants and desires, what he wants more of (oral) and things we used to do. He randomly commented last night as we were walking round the supermarket, that I did used to wear stockings and suspenders didn't I? Sounds odd- I did have to ask what got him thinking of that as we were picking up shopping!
Can anyone make any sense of this, or am I overanalysing and he's simply more interested now we're getting back into things post-baby?