I just want to tell you, my husband is being raped by me all the time.
Women like you and the missus are evil, you know that right?
When I am extremely horny, three times a day, morning, lunch, and night. He never complained, he is just happy that he has a wife who is this horny. He doesn't say anything nasty. For him, it is not a big deal, he just needs to have an erection, I hop on top of him and take him, get what I want, I am happy, then I do things to make him happy, we are both happy.
When I am not super horny, I want sex every day, daily orgasm has been something I cherish about my life. My husband doesn't want sex every day, so very often he has to lie there for me to have fun. He knows it is important for me to have my orgasm, he fulfills my needs, what a wonderful man he is.
Well, I'm guessing you also work yes? For me I'm a sole provider, if my business suffers a setback less cash for all of us. Hence the stress and workaholism, sometimes I'm just not in the mood.
You have something very valuable, but you don't see it. Very often some people make this mistake, they don't see the value of what they have until they lose it.
I know, this forum is actually making me see it. I'm actually rather surprised the average sexy time in marriage for most is 4x a MONTH! That's so much free time!!!!
You say that your wife has been spoiled by you, then stop spoiling her.
But you also have to respect her and love her, you have to look at yourself, examine yourself, you have to know that you have made mistakes also.
I don't like the kind of games you play with your wife, you think you are being smart by causing her to be jealous of you, but it is really childish to play this kind of games. We should be interested in our spouses, know what they like and what they don't like. But we don't do anything silly to make them feel insecure.
Oh the game? We've been playing from day one, so we're used to it. However it seems that nowadays, she doesn't like it no more, prefers that I be more jealous
and more possessive
. Just not me! I don't know. It just feels... weak (I don't like to feel like I'm 'kowtow'ing, ever - I'm sure you're familiar with the term)