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Old 12-23-2010, 11:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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While we were separated my wife bought the Hitachi Magic Wand. She likes it.

She wants to play with it in bed, but when she gets it out I'm just not real sure what I'm supposed to do with it - or myself.

I've always been hesitant to put toys inside of her because I can't "feel" what's going on.

How do you use women's toys for couples sex?

Did they cover this in 8th grade health class when I was absent one day?
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Ahem, ummmm, GET THEE INSIDE OF HER and she can use the Magic Wand for the top portion of her lady parts. You will both feel it.
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I tried a vibrator once, didn't like it.

I prefer real meat inside of me.

So don't know how to help you.

Do you feel intimidated by that toy?

I am imagining your face.................................
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While we were separated my wife bought the Hitachi Magic Wand. She likes it.

She wants to play with it in bed, but when she gets it out I'm just not real sure what I'm supposed to do with it - or myself.

I've always been hesitant to put toys inside of her because I can't "feel" what's going on.

How do you use women's toys for couples sex?

Did they cover this in 8th grade health class when I was absent one day?
Did you tell her you would love to be her magic wand?
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If I'm thinking of the correct 'Magic Wand' it isn't an insertion toy. It is primarily clitoral stimulation. And yes, as Brennan indicated, tell her to get started to build things up, then go for slow intercourse with her using the toy.
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I've always been hesitant to put toys inside of her because I can't "feel" what's going on.
If she uses it often means she likes it and it makes her feel very good.
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Old 12-26-2010, 02:23 PM   #7 (permalink)
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If I'm thinking of the correct 'Magic Wand' it isn't an insertion toy. It is primarily clitoral stimulation. And yes, as Brennan indicated, tell her to get started to build things up, then go for slow intercourse with her using the toy.
It has attachments.

Don't think I'm intimidated, but hesitant. Afraid I will "jab" in the wrong direction or something.
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It has attachments.

Don't think I'm intimidated, but hesitant. Afraid I will "jab" in the wrong direction or something.
It's a lot different when it has a motor and moving parts. Take it out and get used to it like you do with a new powertool .
Turn it on and massage an area on yourself that is sensitive to vibration like your kneecap(compares to her pubic bone) and thigh(or other sensitive places ) on yourself so you get use to how much vib/pressure to use.
Play with the attachments and power switch and speeds so you know exactly what you are doing.

Once you are confident with the tool you can be there for her if she needs you.

*Note: please be sure to clean attachments after each use.
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It's a lot different when it has a motor and moving parts. Take it out and get used to it like you do with a new powertool .
Turn it on and massage an area on yourself that is sensitive to vibration like your kneecap(compares to her pubic bone) and thigh(or other sensitive places ) on yourself so you get use to how much vib/pressure to use.
Play with the attachments and power switch and speeds so you know exactly what you are doing.

Once you are confident with the tool you can be there for her if she needs you.

*Note: please be sure to clean attachments after each use.
Great suggestion.

I tried this thing and WOW it has allot of kick to it. Rightly to call it a power tool. I think that you should solicit your wife for input. The fact that she brought it to bed shows she likes it. As i have indicated in my other post I am trying to encorporate this toy into our sex.

You may want to get her to show you what feels good as she will know best. You may want to have her do this while you are insider her. I have heard of guys entering from behind (not anal that is) gives good access to stimulate the clit.

I would be very interested to know how it goes.
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It's a vibrator NG, not a band saw. You aren't going to "jab her" in the wrong place. LOL.
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It's a vibrator NG, not a band saw.
Band Saw??? Maybe a reciprocating saw would be a better analogy. Sorry, carpentry geek here.
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It's a vibrator NG, not a band saw. You aren't going to "jab her" in the wrong place. LOL.
No band saw, but I think it came with a wood sanding attachment.

Seriously though - a penis is going to go in naturally - finding the path of least resistance.

But I've been told in the past to be careful as to which way I was pointing a toy while it was inside of her. Granted, that one was made of glass as she used to have problems with any type of artificial/rubber items.

Maybe I just need to ask her on this one.
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Band Saw??? Maybe a reciprocating saw would be a better analogy. Sorry, carpentry geek here.
Yes, that was idiotic. Hangs head in shame. Even worse, I own a reciprocating saw! Trying to say a band saw would hurt, vibrator, not so much. :Clearly didn't think of the approriate performance power tool. p

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google magic wand orgasm and watch a few then try it out on her.

then you can ask her to try it out on you put it right under your boys as she gives you head. if you don't like it you can laugh about it and she can finish you off with out it,

sounds like a fun adventure to me.
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I own a reciprocating saw!
Ahh, Brennan, gotta love a woman who knows her power tools. The reciprocating saw, the second greatest invention of humankind, after the remote control of course.
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