01-03-2011, 09:07 AM
Join Date: Sep 2010
| | Re: New here, hoping to find some advice
I see a lot of red flags in your marriage, lying, little sex, being rejected, frustration, and other problems.
I don't think your husband respect and care much about you! Sorry I have to be this blunt!
When our men don't respect us, begging them to love us won't work. It will only make them feel more in control of us.
I do think you might have to prepare for a way out! Living with a man like this will not make you a happy woman.
If you are not working, you have to start looking for a job now. If you have a job, it should be even easier.
From now on, stop begging him, stop focusing on him, start changing yourself, physically and emotionally! Start dressing up nicely, having beautiful hairstyle, taking care of your skin, no matter what you do, make yourself a charming lady for other men. Emotionally, stop depending on him, stop feeling sorry for your life, be more cheerful, be more organized, be more positive, be more peaceful......................
When we play games, the more you want him, the less he wants you. The less you want him, the more you feel confident. When you are confident, you have the world. Men will run after you, and he will become one of them!