MsLonely

If I'm not wrong, you can stimulate the g spot by vagina and anal sex as well.
Stimulation from different directions.
Men also got g-spot.
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marcopoly69

I read that the G-spot is a mith, and that if it exists it is not in all woman...mine, I feel something but don't see her going bananas when touching it....anyhow, I guess we need to do our best to experience all we can as long as we are alive and healthy....

LonelyNLost

Haha, at least he's an EX! In the past when watching porn or whatever, my H has said, "why would anyone go for that hole when this one is so perfect" so I'm guessing I don't have to worry about him wanting to enter through the back door. I would never be able to relax enough to even fathom enjoying it! It's interesting that a woman would be able to get a g-spot orgasm from it though.

marcopoly69

Don't say never....life is short and hopefully at some point, maybe you get to experience it...if done properly, it could become something special between you and your Hubby..

mentallydrained

Okay...not to be/sound gross and I truly can't believe I"m asking...with anal...is there a 'flushing' system to go through before hand? LOL...so sorry just I've never ever tried 1) due to pain. I struggle with the exit of poop let alone something hard going in! And I always grossed out by thought it getting all over the man...embarrassement I guess.

mentallydrained

Can you tell difference between g and clit Orgasams? I'm a definate clit and my guess is same during intercourse. I've had some that tingles all the way down my legs to my toes. Was that possible the g?

LonelyNLost

Yeah, I guess we still have a lot of living to do, so we'll see.

I can definitely tell the difference between the two. Hard to describe. I guess I'd say that g-spot orgasms come from deep inside and work their way throughout the rest of my body. It's more of a wow factor, earth shattering. Clitoral orgasms climax at the spot and then send shivers and tingling everywhere else. I love them, but a g-spot orgasm will finish me off. I can have several clitoral orgasms in sequence and just want more. But I can only handle a couple g-spot orgasms before my body is spent and I'm completely done for. My H is nice enough to give me both every time. He's a pleaser. I'm working on being more of a giver.

Trenton

Not too sure on the g spot one. Maybe I need a sex ed course on anatomy.

I will tell you that I love anal sex and I didn't at first but the kinkiness of it made me continue to want to go back to it. You have to go slowly and allow him to be still while you begin. Relaxation is key as well as BE SURE to have lube so it slides in easier. You can have an enema beforehand if you're anxious about having messy anal sex. If you do, I'd suggest doing it about a half hour before and purchasing it in a store (like CVS) but replacing the fluid inside with warm water which will clean you out but not leave you irritated. Honestly, when I cum during anal sex...it is VERY intense. If he is fingering me at the same time, it's even more intense. I really would recommend trying it and being honest with your husband about what you are feeling and what you want to feel.

Kinky positions and ideas turn me on so I think this helps me reach orgasm too. To me orgasm is like an overwhelming emotional/physical urge & passion combining and I'm not sure what happens to create such bliss but more than happy to figure out how to make it happen again and again and again.

MsLonely

Yeah, yours is clitoral orgasm.

I can't have 5 clitoral orgasms because usually, after 2 or 3 I'm done. (After it's all out & I can fall into sleep quickly.)

G-spot orgasms would be coming like a wave to me, depends on the thrusting speed, one orgasm coming after the next one, like a wave, usually, I can receive 5 of them per round then I have to finish myself with few clitoral orgams.

Some women can actually squirt by stimulating their g-spot! I'm still trying things out & wish my husband make me squirt.

Anal orgams, I simply had great experience & it's extremely good! (very different & hard to explain but it's extremely good & extremly enjoyable, it's like staying in the climax for a long while and the climax never fall back down.) I'd really love it to happen again

But I think every woman can explain these orgams differently.

Mrs. In Love..But

clit - always

g-spot - yes (but if you rub your clit at the same time, it's great!)

anal - not yet (have'nt done it much)

Draguna

Well, I'm a man here saying what my girl has told me. Clitoral is quite easy, oral, masturbation, fingering, vibs, all do the trick and pretty much always. Gspot is starting to happen more often, after we started looking for it. It' quite easy to fin but so far she has only cum during intercourse while on top. She says it' less powerful, but more intense, spreading from the clitoris all over her female parts and stays way longer. However, if doing it manually, combined with oral, it seems to be a more powerful, longer orgasm compared to a normal clitoral. Anal, well, we do it, she loves it, asks for it, no orgasms yet.

I have to say, I'm lucky
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MsLonely

Well input!
Oral with fingering, the woman can probably achieve 2 different types of orgasms together.
That's 2 excitements at same time.
I'd love to add 1 more excitement to those 2.
Slide in 1 vib in the butthole.
So she might have a chance to achieve 3 orgasms. At least, it's a great enjoyment to have 3 spots stimulated at the same time! To be an even more advanced player with a woman. You might want her to try out nipple clamps. Make sure you buy the right one that give pleasure instead of pain if she's not into bdsm stuff.

Draguna

Wow, you just pointed stuff out I never even thought about. Have to suggest all of them and see what sticks. If any ever happen, I'll give an update. One thing I noticed is that the more you care and legitemately want to pleasure a woman, the more she wants to do stuff. Wasn't up till a year ago that it was mostly vanilla stuff.

Edit: Ok... Sorry for going off topic
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Confused Love

Clitoral all the time.
G-spot no.
Anal no (have tried, but no).

When hubby tries to stimulate my g-spot through fingering I always feel like I have to pee, even if I pee before hand! Is that normal, is he doing it wrong, or am I just a freak in that way. LOL I keep hearing about how awesome the G-Spot is but it doesn't seem to work for us.

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*Betty*

Questions:

1. ladies, have you ever experienced clitoral & g-spot orgasms?

Clitoral only, I don't know how to find my G-Spot ( ). I don't use any toys or the like when I am alone because I find it painful, frankly the toys tend to be larger than I am comfortable with. Sex is generally painful for the first few minutes as well, it passes with time, but when I am on my own I don't bother with penetration because (and I know this sounds harsh and crude) I am just there to have a quickie and get on with my day.

2. Have you tried anal sex? If yes, have you ever experienced anal orgasm? If no, are you interested in trying out anal sex?

My first boyfriend and I had anal sex occasionally. He really enjoyed it, not so much for me - it was okay, strange sensation, but not something I looked for in future relationships. I have never had an anal orgasm. Though I have had orgasms that clamped the muscles toward the back as well as the front, if that makes sense.