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Old 01-04-2011, 01:26 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Questions: 1. ladies, have you ever experienced clitoral & g-spot orgasms?
2. Have you tried anal sex? If yes, have you ever experienced anal orgasm? If no, are you interested in trying out anal sex?
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...there's such a thing as anal orgasm? o.o

1. never had an orgasm with my husband. the sex is heavenly, i just don't orgasm, don't know why =/

2. would never attempt anal sex. save for the times hubby misses LOL
it's a religion thing, anal sex is strictly forbidden, i'm assuming because of the health risks.

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I think I orgasm clitoral. When I want to come, I just rub my clit against my husband's cok, and a few seconds later I am in orgasm heaven.

Don't know about the g-spot. I just know when I come, my vagina twitches and twitches, the twitches can continue for quite a long time.

We have tried anal once, didn't enjoy it much, my whole body was numb, the feeling was strange, it was painful but also enjoyable. Don't know if I want to try it again. If we want to try kinky stuff, I need a few good days to rest. When my husband's cok was in my ass, I needed something in my pu$$$ too, maybe that's why people do double penetration.
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would never attempt anal sex. save for the times hubby misses LOL



All orgasms are clitoral in origin.



GP those twitches are great aren't they? I love them
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GP those twitches are great aren't they? I love them
Yes, they are!

Sex and orgasms are just wonderful! My husband and I always talk to each other, how come us human are so LUCKY, we get to orgasm often!!!
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As for me, I did experience lots of g-spot orgasms during penetration. Clitoral orgasms can be achieved by oral sex or by rubbing it by myself.
G-spot orgasms come like a wave and I can have quite many per round. I can also achieve it by myself at woman on top position. My husband also knows how to stimulate my g-spot by fingering.
Some women can actually squirt by having g-spot orgasms.
2. I had anal sex experiences and if the man knows how to do it correctly, so you give him 5 mins, he gives you heaven.
A good anal sex can bring women the greatest, longest, and biggest enjoyment that you never experience in life, I would say, it's a shame if you never experience it. You will reach a state that you don't want your man to stop and you would beg for more.
It was sooo good but the man must know how. He shouldn't make you hurt. Hurting and pain are wrong.

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All orgasms are clitoral in origin.
Not for me. I have had all three.
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Not for me. I have had all three.


No I didnt mean that I meant they figured out that during a g-spot or any other orgasm that the clitoris is swarmed with blood and ends up creating the orgasms for us.
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1. Clitoral - yes, always
2. G-spot - no, never
3. Anal - yes, don't know yet, not enough practice here lately.
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Sorry i am not a lady but, thought my point would ad value

I believe my wife climaxes entirely differently from strickly clitoral vs from penetration I will have to explore further abou t g spot.

Wife seems uninterested in anal and i have not pushed the issue. I have dated more than one women who absolutely loved Anal. Like what others have described it sent them to heaven. I have read that the anus is fulled with nerve endings. I have heard anal stimulation of a man can be quite pleasurable too but (excuse the pun) I cannot get past the notion that it is somehow something only gay men should/can enjoy. I guess that makes me rather closed minded or ignorant.
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Sorry i am not a lady but, thought my point would ad value

I believe my wife climaxes entirely differently from strickly clitoral vs from penetration I will have to explore further abou t g spot.

Wife seems uninterested in anal and i have not pushed the issue. I have dated more than one women who absolutely loved Anal. Like what others have described it sent them to heaven. I have read that the anus is fulled with nerve endings. I have heard anal stimulation of a man can be quite pleasurable too but (excuse the pun) I cannot get past the notion that it is somehow something only gay men should/can enjoy. I guess that makes me rather closed minded or ignorant.
The male prostate is located just in, and just back a lil, once inside the anus(it feels like a lil bump) and all men can enjoy the pleasure of having it massaged.

The difference for women is that the female equivalent of the male prostate is located in her clitoral area but the clitoral tissues with all their nerve endings reach the vagina and the anus.
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Yes - for vaginal, clitoral, g-spot.

Tried anal (unsuccessfully). My husband is just too wide for it, so it's effing painful no matter how slow we went. Aside from pain, I don't think I'd be able to climax anally. I couldn't get past the hygienic issue mentally.
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Yes to clitoral and g-spot. They are very different for me. I'm disappointed if I only get a clitoral orgasm, we go for the g every time!

But anal sex grosses me out. I'd be offended if he suggested it, but I'll have to ask him if he's ever thought about it. It just doesn't seem natural. Maybe I'm a prude. But to each his own!
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Anal sex grossed me out the first time when I was asked to do it, but my bf at that time was quite good at comforting me, and he's well experiended, so it wasn't painful at all.
After some tries, I was able to enjoy anal sex. It's great.
My husband instead has no experience in anal sex, so I don't really know how to guide him also because his cok is much bigger than my bf in the past.
Oops, did I just say my past bf has a small penis that's why not much pain for anal sex? LOL
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1.) clit----every single time...
2.) Gspot---only...about...maybe...3/4/times a year..
3.) anal----every single time...

sometimes with fingering on my G-spot, it will happen...sometimes....
How do you have anal orgasm every single time?...I guess you stimulate the clit very much so?
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