I mean so many people get caught up and frustrated because her / his partner has a high sex drive and they don't know how to handle them....well, after 40 when women become more confortable with sex, they your hubby start giving up and basically so much rejection gets to you and that's shouldn't be....if you have a partner with a higher sex drive than you, embrace it and deal with it, because later in life, is going to be your jack pot!!...when everyone else is getting almost none, or very lame sex, you'll getting whatever you want to experience....for example, myself I am a butt and pu..y licking guy, I like anal, vaginal, bjs, filming, fu..k my wife face, etc....2 years ago, i couldn't even finger my wife....today after a lot of work, honesty, communication and understanding, my wife understood that i don't have a hidden agenda, that i don't want to abuse her....is the way i am...the way god made me...and not having access to her body the way i needed was killing me....today, i have everything i dreamed of....not perfect, but i love my wife for letting herself loose and give herself to me in a way that finally i feel really loved.....