01-19-2011, 10:57 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
| | Re: lacking sex both ways
If you want this to work, something has got to give. Has to start with someone to break the Eye for eye mentality here. I would make time for love making in the morning -if you really care to get things back on tract with your man.
Take the initiative, Set your alarm to get up an hour earlier so you can have this time, before your son gets up, seduce him- go down on him, Men are their horniest in the morning (higest Test levels), this is THEIR time, he is most likely not going to be rejecting you -unless he did not get enough sleep.
He will less likely be doing himself if you get to him every morning, which will only enhace your intimacy. I made this mistake earlier in my marriage, I wanted it at night (and I was a little selfish about it ) he preferred mornings -he was more energized, so we missed each other alot , now that I have the higher Drive, I am bound & determined to meet him any way, place or time he wants it -and mornings are still Best.
Not sure what to say about the condoms unless you take an active role in flirtatiously putting them on for him, so it is not a big deal, or a bother (to him). I guess another issue if he feels like it is wearing a rain coat.