01-19-2011, 01:44 PM
Join Date: Jan 2011
| | I'm just not ready for it.
My husband carried on an affair for 5 or 6 months. He told this young girl that he was in love with her and wanted to marry her. Fast forward: two weeks after I found out about the affair, he wanted to reconcile our relationship. We've been back together, not living together yet, for 6 months and we've been intimate twice.
He, of course, demands my affection; However, I don't trust him and I ... I'm not sexually attracted to him. Deep down, I'm scared I'm going to catch something from him. Now, I asked him to go and get checked and tested for STD's and he did and he gave me the paperwork that showed he was negative. But, I still have the fears.
I've tried to explain my feelings to him, but he doesn't care. I've asked him to go to counseling with me, he won't.