Re: 3-somes...are they really worth it?
Was going to let this one pass me by, but couldn't resist.
Yes, my husband and I have done quite a few threesomes and enjoyed it tremendously. Worked around any physical issues and have met some good people who are still friends.
We typically do the MFM or just MM, or we've even done just FM (another male). We've kind of experiemented all over the map.
We don't participate as much as I would like to due to hubby's medical issues and other problems. But, interestingly enough, this particular activity has caused NO issues. We've kept it completely separate from our own intimacy (when we have it), and it's treated as just something we do.
Now, this may shock some of you so hang on - I even set up a couple of "dates" to visit the hubby at home while I was at work and then he had to call and give me all of he details! I know, I've heard it before.
While I'm very insecure with myself right now, when it comes to this particular action I'm extremely secure - not sure why, that's probably screwed up on some level.
But, my counselor says if this rocks my world, then so be it.
No problems thus far, but we're newbies and not extremely active with it right now, for obvious reasons.
But hey, if it works for you, who should judge?
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