Re: My Wife doesnt like to have sex with me anymore
Welcome to the club, unfortunately there are a lot of us here in the same situation - it might help if you read through some previously posted threads - they have some good, sound advice.
There's a deeper issue here and sex is just the symptom, I've surmised that from my threads on this issue.
If she truly doesn't want to have sex with you anymore and is not willing to get to the bottom of the issue, then you have a decision to make.
Sometimes giving space helps, but for the spouse who wants to avoid the issue, it just gives them more breathing space to stay apart and away from sexual intimacy. It's like they're thinking, great, he/she is not pressuring me and I'm certainly not going to bring it up - whew.
I have also given my husband space, not pressured and it has not resolved the issue, just makes it longer between encounters. We are in MC and are trying to work this and other issues out - success in some, status quo in others.
You need to get the bottom of what the real issue is.
Is it you?
Is she not feeling appreciated/loved in the marriage?
Are there some physical issues for why she wants to avoid sex?
Has she always had a low libido or is this something new?
If it is something new, why?
Did your sex life take a nose dive only after your child was born?
This may be a discussion you need to have with a neutral, third-party present - a MC.
Good luck...if it helps any, there are a lot of us out here that know how you feel.
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