Unlike i've read in many posts here,our sexlife has been super troughout my marriage(39 yrs and counting)I'm 60,she's 56.
But my wife has entered menopause 3 yrs ago and she has now trouble getting aroused and her libido is pretty well gone.
What used to be once or twice a week is spiralling down to once in two or 3 months and getting worse.
My wife hates the way it is going(yeah,tell me about it,you think i dont!)but says she can't help it.
She says her fantasies don't have the same effect it used to have and she don't care for porn (never did)cause she finds it all fake BS.
She's been on hormone replacement but it didn't help none so she quit that.
She is type 2 diabetic as well (no insuline though)She's 5'8 and 140 lbs
So,i'm wondering if sex is history for her or is there still hope.
I don't want no pitty sex or pretended sex and she knows she can't fool me.
I in the mean time am climbing the wall,i'm still as horny as a 20 yr old and have the body to match. 6' 185 lbs
A lot of younger folks here may say,so, whats your problem!,you had more sex in your life than we can dream of,but hey,i ain't dead yet!!. I still want it just as bad as a young guy, or girl for that matter.