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I've read through various posts here and now want to post my own....I hope the subject will not cause any embarrassment or fall outside 'acceptable threads'. If it does, please delete this thread.
I have read alot about prostate massage/milking....and I have never had it done (though I did have a prostate check up once...NOT comfortable)
I am thinking of broaching the subject with my wife as it sounds exciting and is a bit 'off the beaten sex track'.
Do any couple on here actually do and enjoy such a massage?
Any advice on does/don'ts....
I've read through various posts here and now want to post my own....I hope the subject will not cause any embarrassment or fall outside 'acceptable threads'. If it does, please delete this thread.
I have read alot about prostate massage/milking....and I have never had it done (though I did have a prostate check up once...NOT comfortable)
I am thinking of broaching the subject with my wife as it sounds exciting and is a bit 'off the beaten sex track'.
Do any couple on here actually do and enjoy such a massage?
Any advice on does/don'ts....
Thanks
Cough...yeah....dit it.... was awesome...
Just be sure the wife wants to do it for you, not just because you want.
So any tips, pointers? Did you start "by hand"? Machinery?
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Yeps, fingers are better if inexperienced. Just uh, make sure there are no nails in play. You can move up to machinery as well, maybe start with your wife's (with condom around it) and if you like that you could buy (a specialized) one for you.
Not to be disgusting here but it is something I've wanted to try. One of my exes used to finger/lick me and I loved it. But now I have some internal hemorrhoid issues so it concerns me to even consider it. Is it an issue? (Sorry for the mental images )
We started with small vibrators (bought for him only - we don't cross use his toys and mine), then as we got used to doing it he began to want to move up (in size). So we have a huge selection of what I like to refer to as "butt" toys for him in different sizes, some that virbrate and move, etc. He also enjoys fingers, hand and wrist (let you use your imagination here).
He has had some past hemorrhoid issues too, but not a problem with gloves. I buy them by the box at Harbor Freight (non-talc and non-latex) in case there are any allergy issues.
We also, to save money and it's actually less messy - don't use baby oil, vaseline or any type of sexual lubricant, we use CRISCO - yes I said CRISCO - but since it costs quite a bit these days, we use the Wal Mart Great Value brand (guess that isn't a place you should go cheap (LOL), but hubby is cheap and it works just fine).
Due to the fact that you need to use lubricant, it probably wouldn't hurt to invest in a type of sheet called a "sex sheet" - they sell them at numerous on-line websites and you can use it "during", then wash it afterwards.
He also enjoys fingers, hand and wrist (let you use your imagination here).
What... dayum, he be flexible....
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Due to the fact that you need to use lubricant, it probably wouldn't hurt to invest in a type of sheet called a "sex sheet" - they sell them at numerous on-line websites and you can use it "during", then wash it afterwards.
Heh.... you know, never heared of those. Usually use towels when doing stuff that could get messy (lube/female stuff). Now I need to look em up
7737 - I have been interested in it for some time. So much of the research says what a terrific addition it can be. But, sadly as one of the posters pointed out, my wife has no interest.
I think it has more to do with my wife having to try and give me pleasure while she receives none - but that's just how she rolls now and that is my cross to bear. I would love to explore just about everything within the confines of monogamy in my marriage before I am too old and lose interest. I don't want to have any regrets, but I fear the only way that this would happen is if I ventured outside of my marriage - which I have no interest in.
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