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Hi. I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 19 yrs. Never once had an affair. We have 3 children. I have developed over the years a love for her feet. She is totally aware and is "into it". Dont get me wrong, I love her whole body, but her feet come first. I kid her that she caused my foot fetish cause she has toe-tally hot feet, painted nails, size 8. Great sex life, but my question is ....am I going overboard? During sex, especially while she gives me oral, I have to put her feet and toes in my mouth or have them near my face. She just automatically puts her feet near my face, I dont even have to ask. I cant imagine having sex without her feet involved. Just some thoughts as I am new here.
If both of you are happy, then it sounds like things couldn't be better. I liked my wife's feet too. For me, i guess it was mostly a visual thing. Feet wasn't a must for sexual activity, and I liked her entire body, but i thought her feet were very sexy looking. I always preferred her bare feet over stockings or shoes. It also got her a lot of foot massages and nail paintings.
If you are looking for an honest opinion, I think it's a weird.
I'm curious, why do some people think liking a woman's feet is weird. What's any more weird about it than liking legs, stomach, hands, neck, etc? After all, we aren't talking about an animal paw, It's a woman's foot, which in theory is feminine.
Look at any model's picture portfolio over the years and I think you will find that feet are often accented as a very attractive body part.
And maybe I seem a bit confused. . .but maybe, I got you pegged! Ha! Don't know what to do about those tossed salad and scrambled eggs. . .they're posting again. Scannerguard has left the building.
At the risk of putting my foot in my mouth (ba dump dump! cymbal crash!), I think it's kind of weird too. .. but it's not too overboard.
I think the weirdness as compared to boobs, vagina's, and butts turning a guy on is those are "sexual maturity/readyness" cues. .. you see a woman's body and you want to mate with it.
I can't judge if a mate is suitable by looking at her feet.
But as far as fetishes go, this one is pretty harmless, I think.
Good points. I suppose anything can be taken to a weird level, and I guess that is where the "fetish" aspect comes in. I didn't have a fetish, in my opinion, I just admired my wife's feet a little more than most people might, but it wasn't required for sexual arousal.
First, feet have to be nice. I can tell by the appearance of some women's feet that they care little about them. But I think it can add to a woman's attraction if she has nice feet.
Some women pay a lot of attention to their feet with painting nails, toe rings, anklets, and strappy shoes, so i see nothing weird about a man noticing and thinking feet are attractive.
To me, nice feet are just an extension of an otherwise attractive woman; feet alone don't do anything for me.
Lucky wife. I wish my man would love my feet like that. Every time I ask if he can rub it, he gives me a hard time about it. I've threatened to hire a foot fetish guy to rub my feet while we're having s.ex (husband and I) and he gets upset. LOL!!!
Here is an example of a celebrity wedding photo where bare feet are intentionally shown. this is a picture i remember from when i was younger. She could have just as easily had on shoes, as most brides do, but i think the photographer made a conscience decision to do it barefoot because it adds a cuteness to the picture. If most thought bare feet were gross, I'm sure the photographer would have gone with shoes. Just my opinion.
I absolutely love my wife's feet... And I see nothing wrong with it, it's just a matter of preference and I think we all have some attraction to some part one way or another... And how weird is it? I dont see it as weird when it's in topic of the one you love, no different than hairtype, top heavy, bottom heavy... But yea I'd say to have any fetish and be turned on left and right by complete strangers and seeking public visuals, I find down right creepy ( I known of guys with same fetish who do this )... So if your wife don't have a problem with it, don't make one and just enjoy... BTW please don't make it sound as tho it's something to be ashamed of... We are all human and like what we like...
I'm afraid I will have to come out of the closet too on this one! I also have a bit of a foot fetish! Though I never get to indulge in it because my wife isn't even into 'straight' sex.
However, living in a tropical country where alot of women wear sandals, I get to see alot of gorgeous feet! I hate the long pointed toe nails... nice and healthy with painted short nails...Ummmm!!
But...horrible feet/toes/nails can be quite disgusting. One celebrity who is physically very attractive but I feel is 'spoilt' by simply horrible feet (which, apparently she knows) is Victoria Beckham.
Unhealthy, dirty, unmanicured feet/toes etc... YUK YUK YUK!