02-21-2011, 11:04 AM
Join Date: Jan 2011
| | Re: Scared to have sex, husband NOT supportive
Originally Posted by Tool
vthomeschoolmom is right, us guys can be real jerks..
But this is really tricky because iv never had to deal with my Wife having medical problems.. Worst it ever was that we couldnt have sex for 6 weeks after our kids were born.. but she still took care of business for me..
My wife has had a plethora of medical problems, some of which impaired our ability to have sex for months at a time. I always reacted with the utmost character, in terms of supporting her (she'd testify to that in court -- and did, once). But even at her worst she recognized (even dimly) that I was a helluva lot more supportive when I wasn't freaking out about sex (which men do. Like, all the time).
I'm not going to add much to what the lady posters have said here, because you probably wouldn't accept me as a credible authority in the first place, but I would add that this is yet another in a long, depressing stream of marital difficulties that sprung up between couples who wanted to "wait for marriage".
That's like waiting to get your driver's license before you ever get behind the wheel of a car. If you wait until marriage and have a crappy sex life, then you have no one else but yourself to blame for it, for not securing some basic skills before you got into bed with someone.