What Porn did to a Marriage - Interesting Read...

Trenton · 02-25-2011, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

...and your men still watched porn today. Hey Ladies

its Friday

Not mine Mr. Kobo, but your wife most likely used tampons in the last 30 days! Take that!

Therealbrighteyes · 02-25-2011, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

...and your men still watched porn today. Hey Ladies

its Friday

So go watch more of it then. It is Friday after all.

I'm going out with hubby tonight. He's getting laid. Porn ain't needed.

Trenton · 02-25-2011, 03:03 PM

We need to start a "Things I did to the husband over the weekend" thread in the ladies lounge.

Kobo · 02-25-2011, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Trenton

Not mine Mr. Kobo, but your wife most likely used tampons in the last 30 days! Take that!

Well damn that chick. Got to set my boundaries and make them clear because the size of tampons scares the bejezzus out of me.

Trenton · 02-25-2011, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

Well damn that chick. Got to set my boundaries and make them clear because the size of tampons scares the bejezzus out of me.

Kobo · 02-25-2011, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Brennan

So go watch more of it then. It is Friday after all.

I'm going out with hubby tonight. He's getting laid. Porn ain't needed.

None today. Have fun. I could share some notes from when I got laid on Wednesday if you want. I know, I know... It's amazing that I can fit her in with my addiction to porn and all.

Trenton · 02-25-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

None today. Have fun. I could share some notes from when I got laid on Wednesday if you want. I know, I know... It's amazing that I can fit her in with my addiction to porn and all.

-Or- is it amazing that you still fit in with her addiction to tampons and all?...

Therealbrighteyes · 02-25-2011, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

None today. Have fun. I could share some notes from when I got laid on Wednesday if you want. I know, I know... It's amazing that I can fit her in with my addiction to porn and all.

Lordy, nobody said you were addicted. My position has been that it hurts a relationship if you look at porn and your spouse is unhappy about it. If yours is okay, then rock on. I know plenty of people who look at porn and their spouses have no problem with that. I am not referring to those couples. I was and have been referring to the couples were one spouse is hurt, feels rejected, etc. I think those would be valid reasons not to look at porn....the potential harm to your partner.

Kobo · 02-25-2011, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Trenton

-Or- is it amazing that you still fit in with her addiction to tampons and all?...

Never thought about it like that. &^$*

Kobo · 02-25-2011, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Brennan

Lordy, nobody said you were addicted. My position has been that it hurts a relationship if you look at porn and your spouse is unhappy about it. If yours is okay, then rock on. I know plenty of people who look at porn and their spouses have no problem with that. I am not referring to those couples. I was and have been referring to the couples were one spouse is hurt, feels rejected, etc. I think those would be valid reasons not to look at porn....the potential harm to your partner.

Someone said my position means I'm addicted to porn. I'm not even trying to argue with you. Just trying to say happy Friday.

MarriedWifeInLove · 02-25-2011, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

...and your men still watched porn today. Hey Ladies

its Friday

Actually, my man, at this moment is golfing and he is also taking me out to dinner tonight - so no porn at this moment (unless they have it at the golf course).

Kobo · 02-25-2011, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove

Actually, my man, at this moment is golfing and he is also taking me out to dinner tonight - so no porn at this moment (unless they have it at the golf course).

Golf trumps porn everytime for a lot of men

Draguna · 02-25-2011, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove

You've got to be young!

I was old enough to remember this ALL OVER the news - some wife actually had the balls to do something that we've probably all thought about at one time or another.

Just turned 25. Was 7 at the time, only 3 years in the Netherlands back then. So yeah, would not have cared for the news, would not have understood and my Dutch kinda sucked back then.

And for all posts after this. SO MUCH PUNS

reachingshore · 02-25-2011, 04:27 PM

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Four of nine close male friends have found brides overseas. These aren't losers, these are decent guys with good jobs and who own their own homes. But they just don't want to have to endure the whipsaw relationship discussions and utterly confusing, contradictory behavior of American women anymore, so they found women from other cultures who could care less about whether or not they communicate and share their feelings -- they appreciate the fact that they're being provided security and decent treatment. In other words, they're treating the men in their lives as heroic providers, not tedious, contrary bores.

Yhm. No. What you describe there, that's not a 21st century woman from anywhere (unless we are talking Saudi women

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The difference between American women and foreign women (or actually between any woman A and any woman B) lies in the individual levels these women would deem a man's willingness to communicate and share his feelings to be adequate/sufficient.

MarriedWifeInLove · 02-25-2011, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Kobo

Golf trumps porn everytime for a lot of men

Yeah it does - why do you think I'm trying to get him back into it?

Before his TBI, he was a golf nut - 0 handicap, scratch golfer - was working on qualifying for the senior tour.

Now--can barely make 9 holes - sad.

But, trying to get him back out there - less depression, less time on the computer - I'm not stoopid, ya know.