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Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
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Originally Posted by Pandakiss
if he eats a lot of fruit, has vuritually no coffee, and dosent smoke or drink, and cut red meets out of his diet, takes vitamins, drinks a lot of water and tea's, and cuts eggs out....
and is blessed by genitics...then it can be "sweet". if you want your sweeties to taste better, have him eat pineapple, or drink really good pineapple juice, and cut back on coffee about 1 or 2 days before.
dont eat eggs the morning of....and drink cranberry juice, or a juice blend...northlands is best. that works fr chicks too, and if women really want to have a pleasing sent and a wonderful taste....go vegan.
i couldnt...love steak
A lot of men would probably adopt this diet permenantly if they thought it would help seal the deal!!!
Drinks my juice, eats my fruit... Coffee is crack, too hard to avoid but I try...
But you know what no complaints... Yet no compliments either...
Read meats... Hmm ask a guy what do you want? A steak or a bj...
Tough choice... Posted via Mobile Device
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
I guess, the dream would be for the woman to enjoy it but again we are just human being and there are things that we just don't think we can do ....until we do it....then, decides if you can keep doing it or not...but at least try?...isn't that trying to experience as much as you can in your marriage before you just can't anymore...
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
I've done it. My husband really needs to eat more pineapple. I don't mind doing it but I don't see myself ever getting to the point where I will love doing it. I will pretend to love to do it because I love him and that's as good as it gets for me.
marco, I don't really like the way you are with your wife to begin with. I don't feel you treat her in a way where she should in anyway feel obligated to like doing that for you but that's just what I've gotten from your threads. You're not a great husband that inspires love and devotion, you're a sexual miscreant who is more concerned with your penis than your wife's heart.
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
NG,
I take it as an victory... "when you do it right, it seems as if you didn't do anything at all"-Futurama
If I was waiting for compliments, I would go insane... Posted via Mobile Device
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
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Originally Posted by WadeWilson
NG,
I take it as an victory... "when you do it right, it seems as if you didn't do anything at all"-Futurama
If I was waiting for compliments, I would go insane... Posted via Mobile Device
Also - when my wife has just finished me off - I can't imagine saying "So honey - how'd it taste?"
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
Exactly why is it so important for a woman to swallow? Is it that different then going inside during sex? Seriouly, once you get the release why do you care where it ends up? Or is it you mentally get more intense with ejaculating with just knowing she is going to swallow?
Just curious as it seems all men love this. I've done once, maybe twice in my sexual lifetime. And guess I'm nieve...didn't realize men 'swallowed'. Maybe it's because once I go that way...I have to pull him away as it's waaaay too intense for him to keep going while I'm pulsating.
Re: Can you learn to enjoy or deal with swallowing or not?
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Originally Posted by emotionalwreck
Exactly why is it so important for a woman to swallow? Is it that different then going inside during sex? Seriouly, once you get the release why do you care where it ends up? Or is it you mentally get more intense with ejaculating with just knowing she is going to swallow?
Just curious as it seems all men love this. I've done once, maybe twice in my sexual lifetime. And guess I'm nieve...didn't realize men 'swallowed'. Maybe it's because once I go that way...I have to pull him away as it's waaaay too intense for him to keep going while I'm pulsating.
Yes - it is a "different" sensation than intercourse.
And it is a psychological thing as well. Some guys will say it as a way of showing "acceptance" - that your woman loves all of you. Or simply that your woman is willing to go above and beyond.
Assuming that your woman intends to finish you, swallowing is better than having her finish you with her hands.