Re: How do I handle my husbands fantasy of me sleeping with another man
Lols, sperm competition. Men also produce more sperm and recharge faster when sleeping with another woman. Just look up cuckquean. Wives watch their husband have sex with other women, and the men fvck more often. Women who are cuckquean find this trait hot, and find their husband more desireable. It is not just men. There is still a stigma over women sexuality, but don't forget, those women tend to sleep with other married men.
Also, putting new people into your life is a gamble. I read the thread by sandy something, where she felt conflicted when she was in love with two men, and it was her husband that put her in that situation. He withheld sex from her and made her seek it somewhere else.
On facebook, I have read this one post from a former hot wife who left her husband for someone she was more compatible with. Funny thing, is that she is happier now with her new husband, and it is thanks to her ex.
Studies are not accurate when it comes to open marriages, but at best roughly 20 percent of them have no to little conflict. And these open marriages tend to have better communication skills than your average marriage.
Scientific research shows that people can fall in love over one night stands. Look up research by Helen Fisher. Happens to prostitute a lot actually.
It is also shown, the more you feed a fetish, the stronger it can become. Maybe , Lisa subconciously, is already losing some attraction for her husband. I mean it happens. It is one of the common issues in cuckhold, hot wife, or cuckquean fetishes. Eventually, the relationship may feel plutonic.
For those who it works for, they have a more fun life. But, if you do continue this lifestyle, just be prepared, that there is more than an 80 percent chance that you might end up falling for someone else. Funny thing about sex and orgasms, they release those darn pesky bonding hormones. So yes, you can fall in love with just sex and attraction. IN fact women are threee times more likely to fall in love. Men don't release nearly the same amount of bonding hormones as women do. Fromm a mating evolution, this makes sense. Because, those bonding hormones are needed for mates to stay long enough together to raise the offspring. Love at first sight, or instant attraction serves another purpose. In the past our ancestors didn't have time for romance, and life was short, so evolution decided to help people mate faster. Lisa is lucky she hasn't run into a guy that gives her that love at first sight feeling. Also those love at firsst sight couples have a 20 higher percentage of having their marriage work out. Their divorce rate is like 30 percent. That huge attraction factor helps out a lot. And love needs those attraction factors for mates.