Re: How do I handle my husbands fantasy of me sleeping with another man
My wife is the same way with women. She gets turned on doing things with other women and me. It's like reverse cuckold though because she actually likes talking dirty to the other female, or being the aggressor and holding her head in my lap, or just talking dirty to the girl while we are all sexual.
I felt less special for a while, like she didn't care if I was exclusively hers physically any more. But after a year now, it seems like she just uses women as props. She has no emotional attachments and stops talking to the girl after a few experiences, and begins looking for another one. Or we do.
My advice is, if you feel used, quit doing it. Don't do anything you don't want to do. If you need time to understand his kinks or you just don't want to understand this kink and prefer being his exclusively, let him know. Communicate to him that you do not want to be shared and it makes you feel inadequate. Communication.
Last edited by Coldie; 10-31-2014 at 07:26 AM.