Originally Posted by billgour
I was wondering whether anyone else had a dominant wife in the bedroom. Now my wife and I aren't into S&M or anything, but my wife takes charge in sex. For example, she'll grab my head and push it between her legs when we're making out. In fact, she even likes sex all around the house. I basically defer to her, and we get along great. Is anyone else relate to this?
I am one of those wives. After seeing this thread, I asked my husband earlier "Am I dominate in the bedroom?" - he answers "You are aggressive everywhere". Ha ha
I have never pushed his head down, I guess I feel a little funny about that one, but no need, he makes his way there all on his own. He said he would like that though!
But I am like your wife in the sense, I am the one who wants to try new places, new positions- and he is more than happy to go along. I greet him at the door in lingerie (if the kids aren't home), pull him upstairs , seductively undress him, I go for what I want, I'll push him down on the bed & ravish him. And he does love this.
Laid back as he is, he has ALWAYS liked the more aggressive female, he has mentioned being turned on by Roller Derby type women. Once watching porn, Jenna Jameson (Flashpoint) all decked out in red leather, chains, I think a whip, things like that really DO IT for him.
So we make a good match- as these things come kinda natural to me these days. Even in the past, when I was repressed sexually, we still did "cowgirl" almost every single encounter, that is still his favorite.
And it is funny, I have noticed some of the more Dominate males on this forum, they do NOT like a dominate women in bed, they want to take the lead- pretty much always.
No S&M for us either. I did buy a book for curioisty, seemed a little too out there for me.
I started a thread on this over a year ago here >> Want to hear from Men who PREFER dominant women IN BED...