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Old 03-23-2011, 12:01 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What is your take on eye contact during oral?
Doesnt matter if you are male or female, giving or receiving, does it make you nervous or self-conscious or do you enjoy it?

for myself i love it, feels like an extra bit of closeness to me.
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but a lot of the time my eyes have rolled into the back of my head so the only thing I see is stars, Lol
ah, good point!
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Old 03-23-2011, 12:37 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I rarely post on this kind of stuff, but dayum, I do like it when she looks up at me with a devilish grin, like she knows she owns me and is gonna rock my world.

It's been a while, but I'd love to see that again, often.
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You Know what I'll take a stab at it...

when I give I love looking up... but she don't look down... which I'd prefer she look down from time to time... a look that says I'm hers...

of course when I'm getting, I'm always looking... she looks up from time to time... its kind of an its for you look...
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my wife will also give me a look her and their to let me know she wants it in her mouth, and i look back. it is pretty stimulating but to be honest even if she didnt i think i would be ok and long as she is doing that for me i am ok,

as far as when im pleasing her i will start at her and get a little dramatic so she could see my tongur licking her ans sucking on her, she will watch for awhile but then her hand will grab my head and guide me up and down and her head goes up untill she cums
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When I go down, I think we are both fairly focused on the task at hand.
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Eye contact with her is sexy and erotic. I love the look she gives when I'm in her mouth. She doesn't do this often though. She never watches me on her-I've checked many times
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Eye contact is great, at least occasionally. But at some point, the receiver better be closing or rolling their eyes back in appreciation, or the effect is lost. Maybe that means the eye contact is foreplay for oral sex...

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I think sometimes it makes me a little nervous, but I enjoy doing it, and I love seeing him looking down at me.
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Oh, I thought this was about getting it in your eye. HA!

I don't want to be looked at when I'm receiving. I try to look at him at least once while I'm giving because I know he is more visual. Honestly, the less visual stimuli I have the better.
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Oh, I thought this was about getting it in your eye. HA!

thats too funny.
never had the 'pleasure' of that, but i couldnt imagine it being much fun
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Yesss to eye contact!!!
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You see it in porn all the time .. the heavily made up gals staring soulfully into the man's eyes while swallowing his c@ck. My guess was that this would be a turn on for him but I was always a bit self-conscious about it so could never manage more than a quick peak here and there. Otherwise eyes shut.

Last night though the devil must have been in me because I stared him deep in the eyes the whole way through and was it ever amazing and empowering!!!
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Ooh yes. Even she looks at me while giving it to me is amazing. Depending on her mood she owns me or is serving me. I like looking up at her as well but most of the time she is enjoying herself too much to look
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You see it in porn all the time .. the heavily made up gals staring soulfully into the man's eyes while swallowing his c@ck. My guess was that this would be a turn on for him but I was always a bit self-conscious about it so could never manage more than a quick peak here and there. Otherwise eyes shut.

Last night though the devil must have been in me because I stared him deep in the eyes the whole way through and was it ever amazing and empowering!!!

Well said and he's a lucky man!
It's very empowering to look up. It makes me melt usually and then explode!
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