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Jezza, your comment made me laugh, then sad. Ouch.
@greenpearl: that does not work. She isn't one which gets aroused by getting a clitoral orgasm it seems. If she is not in the mood she hates it actually. However, she is always, and I do mean always ready for penetration. Funny eh? Will arouse her more than an orgasm. Posted via Mobile Device
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Originally Posted by Draguna
@greenpearl: that does not work. She isn't one which gets aroused by getting a clitoral orgasm it seems. If she is not in the mood she hates it actually. However, she is always, and I do mean always ready for penetration. Funny eh? Will arouse her more than an orgasm. Posted via Mobile Device
That sounds familiar too.
My husband can do me at anytime he wants. ( I do him more often than he does me! )
Very often after a few thrusts, I get very horny, and I want to cum too, when I want to cum, I tell him to lie down, let me cum first, then he comes on top of me and have his orgasm.
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And another thing to add on why you resemble my girl so much. Only difference is that my drive is a bit higher than hers, but she is still high (4-5x a week). Posted via Mobile Device
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It ranks low on my list of what I enjoy about sex, but I enjoy watching my husband have an orgasm this way. I have to run to the bathroom to spit it out immediately because it leaves a weird aftertaste, like eating the part of a persimmon that is close to the seed - bitter and acrid. We both laugh about it especially since he knows he wouldn't want to go down on me if I taste the same.
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This is embarrasing but you asked...
I had never given a bj until I was 40 years old. Yep 40. Sure I'd done it as foreplay lots of time but never the full on act. Sweetly enough my husband had never had one either so I was his first. How cool is that? Anyway I swallowed. I'm a researcher so I looked it up on-line to read exactly how to do it. Yes I'm a nerd. I was scared to death. What if I choked? What if I hated it? The whole thing scared me but I did it. I just did what I read on the internet. When he is about to finish take him deep and have it shoot straight down your throat. I don't taste a thing.
The only reason I don't do it more is because I have the higher drive. Haven't been motivated to use my few times being intimate with a bj. I'm not comfortable enough yet with 69. I'm working on that though...I'm kinda prudish and a late bloomer but I'm trying.
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I agree that semen is not the most tasty thing in the world but, don't think it is really that bad.
That said, I sometimes would prefer intercourse but, my husband goes crazy when I go down on him. I love to see him in the throws of orgasmic bliss knowing that i can do that for him. I have read alot on technique and think i have it down. My husband appreciates it.
My husband is hardly perfect but, makes great sacrifice to provide. i know he has to swollow pretty crappy stuff (figuratively of course) at his work. He cares for me and my children. He adores me and loves me at my best and at my worst. He makes every effort to please me in many ways. For that i am greatful. It is in no way tit for tat. But, i get down on my knees (literally) and show him how much i appreciate him. We show our appreciation in allot of ways to eachother. This is one way (one small way IMHO) that i can show my appreciation. My husband lets me know when he is close. Sometime I continue to stroke him and rub him against my face and he comes that way. This way i don't have to taste it.
He loves that too. Other times i chase it down with some juice. Again no biggie.
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marriedwithkids - you have a lucky husband too!
Good for you! We all like to feel appreciated, wanted, cherished, loved etc...men don't want flowers, chocolates etc we want to be shown love etc in our language....sex.
Your husband provides for you and your family...you appreciate and love him so you show him your love and appreciation in 'man' language....because you understand man language. I wish my wife did....just as I'm sure lots of husbands on here did too.....
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Let me preface by saying that my partners have always had very good personal hygiene.
I LOVE the smell, the texture, the feel and the taste of a man's penis. His cum? How can I not enjoy it when he explodes in my mouth? The experience, the taste, the act are all part of pleasing my man. As far as flavor? It's always different depending on what he is eating and the individual man. Salty yes, but in a good way.
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Originally Posted by soccermom
Let me preface by saying that my partners have always had very good personal hygiene.
I LOVE the smell, the texture, the feel and the taste of a man's penis. His cum? How can I not enjoy it when he explodes in my mouth? The experience, the taste, the act are all part of pleasing my man. As far as flavor? It's always different depending on what he is eating and the individual man. Salty yes, but in a good way.
Just my perspective.
My husband washes himself clean every time after he pees, it is very considerate of him, he gets himself ready for me at any time. Sometimes I get bored, I just go to him and start sucking his ****!
I love his smell, his smell gets me excited! It is a strange feeling! I am like a puppy, when we are kissing, I keep on smelling his breath and won't let him go!
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I do swallow but I'll be honest here, I'm not that keen on the taste but sometimes you've just gotta suck it up (pun intended)
Sometimes after he has come in my mouth I'll open my mouth so he can see, then I will swallow and open my mouth again so he can see it's gone , then wink and smile at him it's just a little fun way to silently say "love ya"