cumming in your mouth, id like to get the womens perspective>>

Freak On a Leash · 05-07-2011, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by nice777guy

Then - probably around kid time - stopped swallowing (except for birthdays and major holidays)

Birthdays and holidays..that's funny!

nice777guy · 05-07-2011, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Freak On a Leash

For much of our marriage my husband wasn't big on oral sex to me either but when we were "sexed up" the past few years he found some flavored creams/lotions that are designed to be used "down there" and he loved them..so we used them and he went to town!

Yeah, I miss that. When his sex drive died recently the first to go was the oral sex. Shame.

Why don't some men like to do oral sex to women? Who knows? Probably the same reason women don't like to give BJs to their men.

Some of the creams my wife use to use actually tasted good and gave her a "cooling" type of sensation - so it was a "win-win" situation.

When I think of a woman who won't go down or swallow, I always figure it could be an emotional thing OR just the fact that she doesn't like it.

But I'm not sure I've ever heard a guy say that he truly doesn't like going down on a girl. So when a man stops, I would almost think it's more likely to have something to with the relationship.

Runs like Dog · 05-07-2011, 04:57 PM

I guess my wife is waiting till she takes her teeth out at night
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Freak On a Leash · 05-07-2011, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by nice777guy

But I'm not sure I've ever heard a guy say that he truly doesn't like going down on a girl. So when a man stops, I would almost think it's more likely to have something to with the relationship.

I think it has to do with the relationship, or at least the role sex has played in our relationship. For years my husband said he hated it. The smell, the hair in the teeth, etc, etc. He always had an excuse. I also think that he knew my former lovers before him did it to me beforehand. He was my friend for 9 years before we started dating and I used to talk to him all the time about things like that.

When we started going out it wasn't under the best circumstances. I was on the rebound and didn't act turned on by him and it killed his confidence with me and our sex life. I think it also translated into him not wanting to do what the "other guys did". He was very fixated on "going where no man had ever gone before"..anal sex. He was the first there and takes great pride in that.

He's very sensitive about our sex life. He has a LOT of ego and things wrapped on in it. When our sex life became great he started getting interested in performing oral sex. In fact, I'd gotten used to going without it and he insisted on doing it to me! I think there is a lot going on his head. I didn't mind but believe it or not, I had to get used to it again!

Now our sex life is derailed and the first to go with the cunnilingus. I don't think that's a coincidence. I wonder if he'll ever do it again.

It's all very interesting. My H's psyche is a real work in progress.

Freak On a Leash · 05-07-2011, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Runs like Dog

I guess my wife is waiting till she takes her teeth out at night

lime · 05-07-2011, 11:24 PM

I am part of a younger generation than most people here (I'm 21) and pretty much every girl in my age group swallows. Pretty much every time. I'm not friends with really conservative people, but I have a very culturally diverse friend set from different countries/socioeconomic classes/religions/etc. We all swallow.

I can't say what will happen to all of us in 20 years, but it seems like a generational thing to me. I've been with my SO for 3 1/2 years and haven't gotten tired of it at all

Pineapple helps, as does a healthy diet in general... And looking up at a 6 pack doesn't hurt either!

marriedguy · 05-08-2011, 02:12 AM

My wife tried swallowing once..I respect her for that..but she threw up right aways..now she will only let me cum in her mouth..then she goes and cleans her mouth, brushes her teeth, etc..
I can tell she hates it and does it only because she loves me..but that takes alot of the sexiness of it out, I would love it alot more if she actually enjoyed it..
Recently she started trying to scare me with my sperm after its in her mouth..I was like..sure..lets share it..she ran away...so I called her chicken a few times..she ran back tried scaring me..I grabbed her hand and sucked it all up myself....
The taste was NOT bad at all..its like a little saliva..its really all in the head...I know it depends on what you eat and drink..but if you stay relatively healthy and stay away from too much alcohol and caffeine then the taste isnt bad at all...would be a real turn on if my wife thought the same..

jezebel · 05-10-2011, 02:18 PM

i am extremely sexual.. i love cum... i even will have my husband pull out during sex to cum in my mouth... most of my female friends do not like cum they say texture.....

roymcavoy · 05-10-2011, 03:09 PM

How am I NOT with a woman like THIS? ↑↑↑

blondebombshell · 05-10-2011, 06:21 PM

Every time I give my husband oral sex, he cums in my mouth and I swallow it. I don't mind the taste or the texture. I try to deep throat right before he is about to orgasm because that way it just goes straight down and I don't taste it at all.

roymcavoy · 05-10-2011, 09:35 PM

My wife kinda reminds me of Princess Giselle (from the movie, "Enchanted"). Very pretty. Very naive. Sometimes, I think the nastiest thing that's ever been in her mouth is a brussel sprout.

Laurae1967 · 05-10-2011, 10:02 PM

I give my husband a bj almost every sexual encounter we have, but he doesn't like to cum in my mouth usually. He prefers to wait and come inside of me. I don't mind the smell or the taste of cum, but I am not a big fan of swallowing because it coats my mouth and throat and feels strange. I usually have my husband cum in my mouth (on the rare occasion he does) and then let a lot of it dribble down my chin and then I swallow what's left.

I am more sexually adventurous than my husband with a much higher drive, so I am always encouraging him to do whatever he wants. I get off on making him feel good.

annagarret · 06-11-2011, 11:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Smackdown

I don't get it...is there a taste? I know there are certain times when my wife will taste bad, but does a man's taste change? Tit for tat- You swallow, I swallow, you kiss me after, I kiss you after, you mess the bed, you change the sheets, I mess the sheets you still change the sheets.LOL
Mouse

Your funny! I agree. I have always sucked my

hubby dry. Why even give him oral if you don't follow through. Nothing feels as good as having that cum slide down the back of my throat!! Gotta go find my guy!

annagarret · 06-11-2011, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Smackdown

I don't get it...is there a taste? I know there are certain times when my wife will taste bad, but does a man's taste change? Tit for tat- You swallow, I swallow, you kiss me after, I kiss you after, you mess the bed, you change the sheets, I mess the sheets you still change the sheets.LOL
Mouse

Your funny! I agree. We do oral on each other and love it. Why suck your man if you don't love his cum too? I don't get it. Nothing better than feeling that hot cum slide down my throat!

couple · 06-12-2011, 04:59 AM

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Originally Posted by lime

I am part of a younger generation than most people here (I'm 21) and pretty much every girl in my age group swallows. Pretty much every time. I'm not friends with really conservative people, but I have a very culturally diverse friend set from different countries/socioeconomic classes/religions/etc. We all swallow.

I can't say what will happen to all of us in 20 years, but it seems like a generational thing to me. I've been with my SO for 3 1/2 years and haven't gotten tired of it at all

Pineapple helps, as does a healthy diet in general... And looking up at a 6 pack doesn't hurt either!

Probably 2 things. I think oral sex is considered less of a big deal by younger generations. But also for many generations, young people who are sexually active tend to have oral to completion rather than just as foreplay. For example, if they are hooking up casually and don't want to have sex.

Unfortunately I'm not with a swallower (dabbles but clearly doesn't like it in the mouth). In past 'casual' encounters i've always enjoyed issuing the warning (I'm a gentleman) and wondering 'will she or won't she' and there is nothing hotter than having her stay locked on after issuing the warning and finishing the job cleanly.