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Re: What is the best way to get your wife in the mood and to experiment
There are tons of books and websites (including more mainstream ones like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health) that list a different kind of sexual position each day... you could have her go through some of those and pick out her favorites. That way she's in charge of the experimentation.
Or, if she's REALLY conservative, you can start small, with some of the tamer games (or books) where the reward for winning your turn is having your spouse take off a piece of clothing, or one which randomizes what kind of action your spouse does on your body (I have a set of dice with verbs on one die and body parts on the other, for example). If you have the time one evening, and you can get her to commit to the idea before you start playing, you might be able to introduce the concept of experimentation a little more lightly.